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44% Be a spouse of a polygamist

56% Never have a relationship last longer than 2 years

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Be a spouse of a polygamist
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Never have a relationship last longer than 2 years

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To be clear, you would be one of several spouses to the polygamist.

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  • 115

    Azer Faraclas

    8 years ago

    I assume that I would be able to sleep with my wife's wives.

  • 45

    hendrxson

    6 years ago

    your wife wouldnt have wives. but feel free to sleep with her husbands

    • 100

      bob6969||

      5 years ago

      she could be bisexual and i be the only male spouse

    • 25

      thegreatsage41

      5 years ago

      ^Win.

    • 9

      Samantha Zapata

      5 years ago

      they would probably beat you in the sexual satisfactory section though

    • 1

      kangcool09

      3 years ago

      it would be frikin shit if u had a wife that had several naked men in the bed with me and her and they would fight for who should fuck first but if it lasted 2 years i could just have sex wit one girl at a time

    • 3

      Olipops

      3 years ago

      Meh. I'm gay. Works for me. :P

    • 0

      Echo1Echo2

      1 year ago

      If you're in a polygamous relationship you can bring other people into the relationship as well.

  • 17

    oliviax3alden

    5 years ago

    i don't share well... especially if it was my husband's penis

    • 6

      LeBatman

      4 years ago

      I would quickly divorce and continue my life normally.

  • 14

    SilverB33

    6 years ago

    This is my situation already, so I might as well choose it.

  • 11

    L. Yorke

    5 years ago

    As a bisexual, this intrigues me.

  • 8

    Crissy

    5 years ago

    They never said I couldn't divorce them. If you guys have an open relationship, then more power to you.

  • 7

    ezio

    5 years ago

    Can someone explain to me what exactly is wrong with polygamy, I'm pretty sure humans are one of the only animals that do it, and not for natural reasons...

    • 7

      Samantha Zapata

      5 years ago

      Theres nothing "wrong" with it no one said that. People just have trouble sharing whom they love. I get jealous easily I would never be able to do that. But more power to those whom are able to.

    • 1

      that one guy

      4 years ago

      Lions and eagles mate for life as well

    • 1

      Jarrett Smith

      3 years ago

      Its socially unacceptable of course.

    • 1

      YaDildo

      1 year ago

      its not socially unacceptable, just not socially common.

  • 6

    ribbonista

    4 years ago

    I'm way too jealous for that to ever work out

  • 6

    Kenny

    4 years ago

    At Least I wouldn't get HIV

  • 6

    thegreatsage41

    5 years ago

    Just renew the relationship every two years. Ta-da! Insert troll face here.

  • 6

    np11

    6 years ago

    i can be polygamistic too

  • 5

    Ron Lemuel

    5 years ago

    I wouldn't wanna deal with having a girl leave me every 2 years... That heartbreak. Noep.

  • 3

    samsung

    5 years ago

    As a male, I wouldn't be want to be the spouse of a polygamist. 2 men one woman is not the right dynamic for a relationship. Men are too territorial. 2 women one man might work.

    • 0

      Zanthor

      1 year ago

      I mean, no one said the woman couldn't be bi or pan.

    • 0

      Echo1Echo2

      1 year ago

      A. Obviously have an obsession with your own gender B. You're a joke C. You're close-minded

  • 0

    RadFoxUK

    5 days ago

    It's called an orgy people FY!

  • 0

    Deiplz

    6 days ago

    I could devorice

  • 2

    Piotr Fairfield

    4 years ago

    As Vinicius de Moraes said, "Be it infinite as long as it lasts"

  • 2

    Lauren Collins

    4 years ago

    You could end the relationship after two years for a short period of time and then get back together.

  • 2

    Shanna

    5 years ago

    61% would seriously want to never have a relationship last longer than 2 years? if you ever had kids you would either have a bunch of different parents for those kids or never be with anyone long enough to think about having kids... yea polygamy is messed up but at least you'd have a big happy family!! lol

    • 1

      Echo1Echo2

      1 year ago

      It's not messed up. Plenty of people are very happy with it and even more are happier than most monogamous couples.

  • 2

    Pattywagon

    5 years ago

    2 years, no kids. Its fine

  • 2

    LimeGreenTeknii

    5 years ago

    They never said the other spouses would be the same gender as me. I could be married to a woman who is married to other women and me.

    • 2

      Fedos

      5 years ago

      Doesn't that go against the spirit of the exercise.

    • 0

      Echo1Echo2

      1 year ago

      Fedos, no it does not. You are supposed to look at the polygamous relationship as a real polygamous relationship. That means that each spouse can be any gender.

  • 1

    Baller Bolt

    5 months ago

    girls are annoying.. boys u know what I mean

  • 1

    chichi

    1 year ago

    we all know what happened to onision

  • 1

    Melissa Gao

    1 year ago

    just be single

  • 1

    Danny Kulesa

    1 year ago

    I don't see anything bad about this

  • 1

    Pretty Trans Boy

    1 year ago

    #I'mAlreadyPolyamorous

  • 1

    King

    1 year ago

    Um, I'm not a girl

  • 1

    Idvsaturn

    1 year ago

    would be hell of a two years most likley

  • 1

    Hitter

    2 years ago

    i can leave like that....

  • 0

    rambocreativity

    1 month ago

    Just never date?

  • 0

    JokerShot

    1 month ago

    I will have multiple waifus muhahaha

  • 1

    Bezerk_power

    3 years ago

    What is a polygest or whatever

  • 1

    jos

    4 years ago

    Threesomes!!!

  • 1

    kaheri

    4 years ago

    boom boom boom zoom zoom

  • 1

    Elijah De Pino

    4 years ago

    Assuming STD precautions are being taken, living with 4 or 5 others all in a shared relationship would be cool.

  • 1

    anni

    5 years ago

    would someone really want to be awfully hurt every 2 years? in case we're talking about real love and not just some sort of sex-relationship loving and being loved forever by someone who maybe also has the same thing with someone else..well i guess that'd be better.plus one might even start having feelings for the third party member too..thatd be a win-win-situation.

  • 1

    Matthew

    5 years ago

    I already have this one anyway.

  • 1

    EdwardNigma

    5 years ago

    This could end with a gangbang. I'm down.

  • 1

    finiteBytes

    5 years ago

    I can share. What's wrong with orgies?

  • 1

    lillie

    5 years ago

    im a polygamist soooooo

  • 0

    Kayla the Embalmer

    2 months ago

    I'm a Monogamist and very, very easily jealous. Not sharing.

  • 0

    Anton

    2 months ago

    I can share... as long as everyone else can share

  • 0

    Yuri Plisetsky

    2 months ago

    Me and my husband are already in a poly relationship. So I just chose that since it was already true.

  • 0

    That one guy

    3 months ago

    If my wife's other husband doesn't know she's a polygamist, I can file a divorce and make her feel uncomfortable with her other spouse.

  • 0

    Just Random Someone

    3 months ago

    never-ever had a relationship so uh... nothing to lose

  • 0

    BananaDolphin118

    3 months ago

    At least the relationship would last.

  • 0

    FrossFairyEmpire

    3 months ago

    Oh jeez this one definetly is a very painful question. I dispise polygamy, but to be hurt and see others hurt every 1-2 years that would just be horrifying. Reliving the same pain over and over again and again. Even consciously KNOWING, it will... Since the Polygamist definetely is happy with more than one spouse I guess I should choose that. Isn't the reason why you many to make each other happy? Currently in a relationship (FxF) monogamous thank all, but if she wishes to add someone else at least I could guess who it could be and if it's either that or to be hurt every 1-2 years, seeing someone hurt every 1-2 years as well. Then I'd tell her "Go and get her Tiger." I guess if I must I could get used to it eventually. Luckily I know her long enough to know that she rather stays monogamous (Thank her morals), it's one of the reasons I care for her.

  • 0

    Clary

    4 months ago

    Polygamist- some1 who is married to some1 who has more than 1 wife/husband at the same time

  • 0

    Chloe

    4 months ago

    I can just live like Taylor swift!

  • 0

    Chloe

    4 months ago

    I can just live like Taylor swift!

  • 0

    si_joule

    4 months ago

    I'm cool with this

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