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r3dsparcl3
it is better to have loved and lost than to never love at all.
hahaha
Shakespeare ftw
David
"Jay: You know what they say. It's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. Kay: Try it. " -Men in Black
Ruben Olivares
*T'was
Skidd
Fuck you, you goddamn liar.
Jarrod Class
hahaha Not Shakespeare, Alfred Lord Tennyson
Yoshiharu
Shakespeare, but I first heard Plankton say it.
shaneac
But if you never loved, you don't know what you're missing out on. Ignorance is bliss.
Runescape
Lies.
Kayla
but what if you love someone and you know you can never be with them and your whole life is miserable because you cant stop thinking about that one person for the rest of your life. No Thanks, I would rather have never loved at all and always be happy than have a apart of me be miserable
Rainbow
Ignorance is bliss
Ruby Robinson
Harry Potter!
Newmetalfriend
True true
Paul118
@David It's just "J" and "K" not Jay and Kay
Franklin Chen
Find some hoes
evsey
so true, it is better to experience love and be happy, then to never have loved at all. :)
Trey
just like Plankton said...
Alexela311
Not loving at all would be really sad...
Oh Snap
Never said you couldn't freeze it and wait for the scientists to find a cure and... Ok I'm just getting desperate...
FUN GUY
True.
SMYMJ
actually its better to have never loved at all because you wouldn't feel the pain from a person leaving you
Billy_Glen
Remember Plankton's Quotes (Not real plankton , in spongebob cartoon)= It's better to be love with someone and lost than never loved by someone. Really this thing sayed by him. and i can say "What the Freaking Is this WORDS!!!"
Broosies
whoever wrote that obviously never loved and lost
FakeTearsDryFaster
That's what they all say after a break up
PhantomGaming
“Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.” see this quote? the love maybe over but it happened at least.
Pyrojiin
Could have always just lost your love when you died so you never really "lost" your love in the first place they lost you
Shannon
If you've never lost, you don't lose anything. You never knew what love felt like, so why should you feel sad?
Shannon
*** If you've never loved, you don't lose anything. You never knew what love felt like, so why should you feel sad?
Josh
Its bettef to not love cuz love is a bunch of bull crap
Loleris
True
HOS2002
I just wanted to say the same thing,but I don't really care
Guakabyte
First heard it from Capt. Pacard Star Trek
Black cat
I have enough depression problems loseing someone Iloved would make it worse
Rabu Tsuyoiude
@Rainbow... Dash or Factory?
ImjustSteven
Yeah. Try it.
MashedPotato101
No because if loved and lost you will miss who you loved , its better than you never love ...
nicole
just like severus snape
Alyssa
Agreed
GIC
You get to love more... -insert Kappa face here-
Firebird
sad sob stories. thats why I dont deal with those emotions.
pooky
hit it and quite it
Eldanon
Trust me, it's better to have never loved at all than love someone you know you can never have. It turns you into a depressed, hollow shell of a person. I fake 99% of my emotions so others don't worry about me. I want to die but I won't let myself die because I want to see how my life plays out.
Mike
solo ridin til I die mothafucka's PS whats with the shakespearian peotry
Squid
Tis better to have loved then lost than to have never loved at all.
ACGaming43
I like how this guy above my comment is sending a message but his name is Squid lol. Anyway I don't really need others I have God, family, and animals. I'm extremely antisocial so I don't necessarily talk to others. I would do anything to help someone even strangers but try to give me praise and I don't talk back to you for the rest of the day. I'm just weird like that. But I do care about everyone except some people... That's nothing. I saved my cousin from getting ran over and I just played it off like nothing and everyone was like "OH MY GOSH THANK YOU SO MUCH!!" and my response was "You could have done it too ya know..." Everyone was saying no that they couldn't and I was like just be confident. I'm not confident in myself, AT ALL. I don;'t want people to worry about me.
Bruce
Have you every loved and lost?Do you have ANY Idea how painful it is?
TheFracturedRuby
it happens to everyone (almost)
Randoman
Bah, love is overrated.
EMY_06_UNICORN
Yep
Gorhang
And if everyone you know dies? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Ahlexiah
That's just what happens. It's natural in life
poop
But no one loves other then my family
thecrazydoge
if i loved and lost i will cry like hell.. if i never loved... i don't give a damn homi
bob
no because you can be heart broken
Jonathan
If you have never loved, then you would experience no despair from the fall.
FlubbyMcFlubberButt
forever alone
TheBigBootys
too bad guys they want there loved one lost
Ammara
It would be horribly sad to see people around you fall in love and know that that could never happen to you. If you've loved and lost, at least you can cherish your late loved one's memories and hopefully fall in love again.
Gwin
No.no it isn't
Drunkenstein
Had you never loved at all you would feel no pain and obtain immunity to manipulation by love.
Redfeild
To be real i don't know! We all love and lose once in our life doing it again will happen so...
CustomJT
#WillSmith #MenInBlack
Panda
truth
MissHorrorshow
I hate this statement, because I have loved and lost...a whole lot. When you love someone and they leave you and you have nothing to show for the love and time and care you put into the relationship but tears and self-loathing that is without a doubt the bigger burden than never loving at all. You expend nothing of yourself when you don't love anyone. You stay whole. When you love and lose, each person takes a piece of you with them. That's the lynchpin of this statement. "Loved and LOST", meaning you've never had and never will have a love that will not fail. If it was "Loved or never loved" then obviously "loved" would be the choice. As someone who has never loved someone who didn't walk away, I'd trade it all right this second if I knew I'd never EVER have to feel that pain again.
rakketakke
tl;dr
SeaHorse405
So, you would have never loved at all?
Lawrence
You wouldn't feel such pain if you didn't feel immense pleasure. Surely it is better to experience love & pain than go through life never knowing how deeply you can feel.
EdwardNigma
I know that feel.
Johan Leth Gregersen
Just think of all the good times you've had with your love. I know it sucks, but do you really love someone if you do not treasure time with them more valueable than hatred for the time you're away from them?
Bananerz
I know EXACTLY how you feel. I meant to click the blue, because I've learned to accept it, accept myself. And I figured out I'm the bad guy (not in relationships, but in general), and the bad guys never get the happy ending.
Oh Snap
You have a lot on your mind. But they're never really gone... They spent a portion of their life with you. You get memories from that. But I know when I feel lonely, I just feel sad as cheesecake.
kitty cat
i will cry to lost the one i love!!!!!
Life's like that!
If you loved and lost... you would learn more. It's better than being seen as a heartless person. That's life's sick game.
Jerry
so sad
Wolf
Suck my dick haters
Katie
Never loved = not ever getting hurt emotionally.
T.P.N
Never loved = virgin.
Ranger
I'd rather have loved and not lost but between the two I'd have to say the love is not worth the pain.
Steven
TPN misread the question.
Wendall Horton
T.P.N. Ever hear of prostitutes?
You
From personal experience. Never loved. Nothing is worse than lost.
Aharon
It hurts more than the pleasure of love.
SunnyCrapCake
If nothing is worse than 'lost', how come you're fine right now?
Miriam
From personal experience of not being mentally capable of love, you can just fuck off and die.
David Bell
"Its better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all" love that line, its like music
assassin
the only thing i love is the internet and my cats and both of them never loved me back but im not willing to part with any of those.
geekyloon
When a man learns to love, he must bear the risk of hatred
Ryker
ignorance is bliss
Kronos
duh ! obvious unless you never loved someone
Gunther
But loving and losing leads to pain and heartbreak whereas never loving at all means you never felt love and there for never felt the pain of loss
Alex
But there's a feeling of emptiness when one hasn't loved at all. And time heals everything as they say.
Lawrence
I disagree with Gunther. The only reason you feel such pain during heartbreak is because you experience great joy with that person to begin with, and now its over. I would rather take the massive amounts of joy and love with the pain than go though life never knowing those feelings.
sedayildirim
@Gunther It's because of Rachel, isn't it?!
EdwardNigma
I have felt love. I thought she was truly the one. When it ended I didn't know what to do. I was dead inside. I have become a darker man. A hollow shell. A cold hearted human. That feeling is like a constant stabbing pain. I would rather not have the amazing feeling of love torn away and replaced by a dark suffering again.
JustCarefree
You mature a LOT more if you lose something/someone you cared about. You learn to value things, be it time, morals, or even money.
Alvo Razzi
As someone who has loved and lost more than once, I can tell you that it is definitely better to have loved and lost. Remembering how it was to be loved is indescribable and a great lesson. Plus, you can love again. Never said that you couldn't love again. The other answer implies never loving forever.
Wuppi
Some of these wounds, cannot be healed and will stick with you forever, sometimes you wish that you never met her.
Mehmet Ronaldo
I dont think u would be empty why would u? U dont love someone that normal u love someone that normal to would u love ur mom and let her die or dont love her and she lives
wrathseed
Never love. The scars would never be there
SunnyCrapCake
You have scars from other things anyway. Fuck 'Better to love and lose than to never love at all', a better phrase is 'Shit happens.'
Caity
Love definitely there's no point being a loner your whole life! Try new things take risks
Purplegaze
I don't love people
Fierwork
Loved and lost
Wyatt Jones
As the saying goes, its better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all
lol
many people would rather go through a break up or divorce and be depressed??? no love and done no extreme depression
BlueberryWine
Wait, I thought that one had been settled.
FreakiestAlmond
Tis better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.
Jake the Boss
At least u had the experience
KyleReynoldss
Not loved. Worst pain is emotional ones.. Best to avoid it
QLB
It's about our feelings. We feel alive when we feel feelings and I want to experience a lot of feelings and I'm happy to feel something anyway.
SeaHorse405
To hell with being in love. It isn't 'real' ⁢ won't last forever.
Evan Hamilton
You are the biggest moron I have ever seen in my entire life.
Adalos
Those YOLO and SWAG are far more stupid and yet you call him the biggest moron you ever see?
Joseph David Stearma
funny thing about SWAG. it stands for Secretly We Are Gay. look it up.
Kia James
To be honest, I'm not loved anyway so it doesn't matter.
BETTER SIDE
hi
Kuroshitsuji-chan77
Means I can love starting now right?
Chris
I don't know any of these movies
Manevra
xD
yourmumasofat
Hello darkness my old friend...
Logan
Aromantic here, I don't feel love so this is just my everyday life.
Forzero Purposes
Sex then new girl
AbdallahGames
say that to nikolai fron Call of Duty Black Ops III
Sansanic420
So you can keep them alive in your memories
HaileyBailey2024
It's better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all
I'm a unicorn, bitch
Most people have loved and lost. That's how life goes.
SuperSauce
Aromantic Asexual REPRESENT!
Chicknick
YEAH BRO
Darragh
men in black anyone
Jeremy_V
Time hasn't healed me
zizoo
never loving that means you cant love anyone
Norah1435
It's part of life's drama that every body most go throw
LOL
I've already had that because I loved my dad but then he died and I lost him.
Windalfr
I've experienced loving and losing and it really does fuck your shit up good for many years. To be honest I would rather trade in my short time in love than losing it all in an instant.
tacoman2254
Potato
Chip Davis
I wanna be a real boy!
YouAreAPeasant
I've lost a lot of people in my life, but gradually you'll deal with the pain like it's a part of you. There can be pain in everything. Not just in loving someone, and then losing them. I mean, people always leave right? I'd rather be surprised if someone stayed.
furiouscucumber
i know that love is a very serious disease, that can destroy your brain... i'm the only person on earth who survived, recovered and got immune. now i'm just awesome people hater.
Somebody
It is better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all.
Jay
Love and Lost because then you become one of those respected, shiny eyed, sympathy soaking, bearded fathers.
Jay
Love and Lost because then you become one of those respected, shiny eyed, sympathy soaking, bearded fathers.
Alyssa
Honestly? I've loved and lost. The emptiness you feel when you've never loved is nothing in comparison to losing that someone.
Void
Loving and losing leads to suicide
Dr. Prof. Damian
makes for good music:)