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Sucks for you. Twice.

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  • 621

    luisaswim

    10 years ago

    I couldn't hurt my significant other in that way...I'd much rather be hurt than be the one doing the hurting.

    • 143

      StrongerTD

      9 years ago

      You're full of it

    • 267

      luisaswim

      9 years ago

      How could you stand to look the person you love in the face once you've cheated? Once you've betrayed their trust like that? I would kill myself before hurting someone that close to me. It's not like I'm worth much in the first place anyways. And congrats. That stung a lot.

    • 28

      Robbie Carrine

      9 years ago

      If they were willing to cheat on me, they shouldn't be hurt if the opposite happened. Besides, I'd never cheat. I'd break up with them first. Even breaking up with someone can cause pain. Neither of which are meant to hurt someone intentionally.

    • 32

      Shney

      9 years ago

      @robbie Choosing get caught cheating implies they weren't cheating and never would.

    • 8

      Natasha Cartmell

      8 years ago

      My sort-of partner cheats on me already and I've seen him do it. I'm not really that bothered though if he don't love me.

    • 9

      daisydog

      8 years ago

      i will feel my dad's pain at lest

    • 7

      IkilledKenny

      8 years ago

      Catch them... And then get caught.. WIN WIN!!

    • 2

      thisizjake

      8 years ago

      Deep.

    • 16

      Xenalith

      8 years ago

      If you are the good person, you know you would never cheat - catching your partner cheating simply tells you they are not the one for you, this is basically a benefit unlike 'you cheating' just lowers your own confidence and such.

    • 1

      AllieKat2000

      8 years ago

      @StrongerTD Why is luisaswim full of themself?

    • 5

      yaboyroy

      7 years ago

      Pussy

    • 3

      kangcool09

      7 years ago

      GUESS WHAT...IAM STILL THE FATHER BETCH WAIT UNTIL THAT HO OF YOURS HEARS DAT!

    • 2

      Tro11ster

      7 years ago

      it doesnt matter of you cheat or not if you cheat on loads of people at the same time I mean its been proven that most people are in relationships for the body of there loved one anyway

    • 0

      wellwouldya

      7 years ago

      if im cheating on the clearly i dont car for them that much. if they cheat on me i might have loved them and feel betrayed. idc if i get caught by someone i clearly dont care about

    • 1

      Guardian Seho

      7 years ago

      Mine would just laugh and ask how much I paid

    • 0

      SwiggitySwaggle

      7 years ago

      Same bruh same

    • 6

      mew2rules

      6 years ago

      it doesn't specify what you are cheating at. I might just be bad at poker

    • 0

      Efecan Duraçe

      6 years ago

      I am too much fragile and if I saw something like that I couls beat the ahit out of them both. So emotional pain vs physical pain...

    • 1

      WiFiwithPi

      6 years ago

      U could punch the other person in the face that would feel nice

    • 0

      elliesse

      5 years ago

      sounds like a lie but id be ok with it just talk about why try do better if its me and why hate them for one wrong thing (unless they did it to on purposly hurt you) when theyve done many right, its not like they stabbed you and left you to die that counts as hundreds of wrong

    • 1

      elliesse

      5 years ago

      also if you and the other person are flexible have a three way ;)

    • 0

      buttlaser

      5 years ago

      tape it send to its mother

    • 0

      Alex

      5 years ago

      you are full of it

    • 0

      Terry Day

      5 years ago

      Love is.made up

    • 0

      Gabe

      5 years ago

      bro I agree with you so much

    • 1

      Apples89

      5 years ago

      Hi I'm new do you know how long it takes for your questions to publish I've been waiting 18 hours

    • 0

      ThetaSigma

      5 years ago

      So you'd rather make that person go through what you don't want to? Either way, you'll look like an asshole.

    • 0

      Ian

      5 years ago

      if you don't want to hurt then whyd you choose red

    • 1

      pooky

      5 years ago

      i would punch her so hard the face i would fractur her skull

    • 0

      Goldy62

      5 years ago

      I would never cheat

    • 0

      The Jeffman

      5 years ago

      Both have happened to me, so it doesnt matter/

    • 0

      Ken Kaneki

      5 years ago

      You are quite bold to say that you care so much about the feelings of someone you dared to cheat on... if you get to this point i'd say that getting caught would be an inconvenience at worst, even advantageous in the right situation.

    • 1

      luisaswim

      5 years ago

      @Ken What? I wouldn't cheat on someone, that's the whole point and why I chose red. Put another way, I can forgive someone else but I'd never forgive myself. Therefore, I would rather be cheated on because you can't get caught cheating if you don't cheat.

    • 1

      Sly

      5 years ago

      I'm crying think about like this. Don't tell on them and no one is hurt

    • 0

      CommieSteve

      5 years ago

      That's why they cheated on you

    • 0

      luisaswim

      5 years ago

      Incorrect. Nothing you do can ever justify cheating. The fault of any cheating lies in the shoulders of the cheater and the cheater alone.

    • 1

      ixToxic

      5 years ago

      luisaswim gets it

    • 1

      Ben Parker

      5 years ago

      stop being a fag

    • 0

      Ben Parker

      5 years ago

      that wasn't me sorry about that comment

    • 0

      RedorBlueRyan

      5 years ago

      yeah

    • 0

      skyla

      5 years ago

      stp it

    • 0

      SpartanPlayz

      5 years ago

      KILL, KILL, KILL!!

    • 0

      Qewerka

      5 years ago

      I WOULD RATHER HURT SOMEONE THAN BEING HURT ^^^^^^

    • 0

      Wordflux10

      5 years ago

      I'm a good person.

    • 0

      Zombieslayrer

      5 years ago

      I'm a good person why would you hurt your partner

    • 0

      IceWarrior

      5 years ago

      why not choos a stupid and get a new one

    • 0

      wordpass

      5 years ago

      ur sum sappy bruh

    • 2

      Noob Gamer

      5 years ago

      Your Comment Made Me Cry

    • 0

      PrinceJerry

      5 years ago

      That's B.U.S.T.E.D you are busted.

    • 0

      Nathan

      4 years ago

      LOOOOOL

    • 1

      Jason Robinson

      4 years ago

      Guys it never said who caught you

    • 2

      [deleted]

      4 years ago

      ive been hurt before and it fuckin sucks. never again.

    • 1

      CANDY

      4 years ago

      I'd rather be doing the hurting so I can move on easily

    • 0

      Matraph

      4 years ago

      Plz cheat on me with another woman

    • 0

      danTRM

      4 years ago

      OK THIS CRAZY CAUGHT CHEATNG AND PARTNER CHEATING CRAZY STUFF DANTRM :)

    • 0

      [deleted]

      4 years ago

      If i saw my bitch fuckin another bitch i would just say "can i join?"

    • 0

      superbDOG46

      4 years ago

      All 3 will be hurt cuz ill punch them in the face.

    • 0

      Percy

      3 years ago

      snitches get sitches

    • 1

      Tavzz

      3 years ago

      true shit

    • 0

      knorknor136

      3 years ago

      lol 69 perent

    • 0

      Coaster Bot

      3 years ago

      I wouldn't even care.

    • 1

      Eleanor

      3 years ago

      Im single :P

    • 0

      Vetrix

      3 years ago

      Same man, I could never hurt them. It would kill me

    • 0

      Evalgra

      3 years ago

      This is one of those real questions

    • 0

      Ian

      3 years ago

      I'm so glad that someone thinks this way, my hope in humanity isn't lost

    • 0

      Dylan

      2 years ago

      I'm not that much of a dumb ass to hurt my partner

    • 0

      Cody

      1 year ago

      she will just join me

    • 0

      DiamondDemon

      1 year ago

      i dont class cheating bad

    • 1

      Christian

      1 year ago

      I picked random cause I don't care

    • 0

      oofles

      10 months ago

      i just don't want to be an asshole. If i hated them that much I'd break up with them, not cheat on them like a dumbass

  • 42

    Roo Bailey

    9 years ago

    I'd rather have a clear conscience knowing and know they were never the one for me - than cheat and discover later on I'd made a horrible mistake

    • 0

      Terry Day

      5 years ago

      @eddy thats not tru the guy could have known what they was doing

  • 39

    VisionaryTechnique

    9 years ago

    "Yeah your right, I FUCKED her, but I made LOVE to you" - That should patch things up.

  • 36

    CletusJenkins

    12 years ago

    No alimony payments.

  • 27

    iloveglobes

    10 years ago

    If we are going to ban gays the right to marry because of the sanctity of marriage, then we should also ban celebrities from marrying.

    • 9

      Kendall Walls

      9 years ago

      or just make it harder to marry

    • 0

      Terry Day

      5 years ago

      Your statement makes no sense what so ever how does gays and celbrities relate what if they was gay and famous?

  • 25

    [deleted]

    9 years ago

    Doesn't matter, had sex.

  • 11

    Mikaela

    9 years ago

    I'd rather my partner be the cheating bastard than me..

  • 9

    Bailey C.

    8 years ago

    Cheating is going against my morals... so I'd rather catch that lying f**cker

  • 8

    MarkTheGr8

    9 years ago

    To me it sounds like pleasure or pain. I choose pleasure.

    • 3

      Jacob

      8 years ago

      I'd do the same, but I have a conscience. Red is like being betrayed by someone I love, blue means being betrayed by myself. Definitely more soul-destroying.

  • 7

    mike tyson

    8 years ago

    I change my answer cuz I love my girlfriend to death but I'm pretty sure she doesn't give a fuck about me so I think it would hurt her a whole lot less

  • 6

    [deleted]

    5 years ago

    Threesome?

  • 5

    beachedteaspoon

    5 years ago

    polyamory. we'd make it work

  • 5

    GrimTacos

    8 years ago

    Lol, i just won't play board games anymore.

  • 4

    Shelia Horne

    9 years ago

    It would NEVER happen, but I'd rather be *caught* cheating, than go to jail for multiple murders. ;-P

  • 4

    wrathseed

    9 years ago

    The guilt would kill me

  • 4

    Cooney

    9 years ago

    What if you were both cheating?

  • 3

    Clara Urbahn

    9 years ago

    id get to go all ape on them

  • 3

    Kyle Bernstein

    9 years ago

    Doesnt matter, had sex

  • 3

    Mepper

    9 years ago

    Thank god its only talkibg about Poker.

  • 3

    TheRogueMan007

    9 years ago

    I can beat 'em afterwards

    • 4

      Eddy Martinez

      9 years ago

      If you are a boy/man don't get mad at the other boy/man because he was cheated on too so blame the girl/woman

    • 3

      Eddy Martinez

      9 years ago

      if you are a girl/women get mad with the boy/man because the other girl/woman was cheated on too blame the man

    • 0

      Eddy Martinez

      9 years ago

      I'm a man by the way

    • 2

      [deleted]

      8 years ago

      @Eddy Martinez I think we understand you are obviously a man. I've never met a woman named Eddy.

  • 3

    Morgan Marie

    9 years ago

    caught him already s0o been there, done that

  • 0

    kylis280

    6 days ago

    69% in this question lol

  • 2

    XxduhitsemilyXx

    4 years ago

    OMG I JUST HIT 100 SUBSCRIBESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSAZ

  • 2

    Nick

    5 years ago

    Honey im ho- WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING?!?! *keeps having sex* SERIOUSLY WHY THE HELL ARE YOU STILL DOING THAT?!?! *keeps having sex* no but seriously why haven't you stopped *keeps having sex* you know what whatever im just going to ignore you *keeps having sex* * turns on tv* 5 hours later- are you guys still at it? * keeps having sex* 1 day later- umm are you guys ever gonna stop? *keeps having sex* 3 weeks later- seriously its been 3 weeks this whole room smells like jizz *keeps having sex* 10 years later- this is normal now *keeps having sex* 50 years later- and these two skeletons used to be people who had sex for too long they say you can still hear the moaning and orgasms

  • 2

    mightyXblue

    5 years ago

    IT DOESNT SAY WHAT UR CHEATING AT / WHO UR CHEATING ON SO U COULD BE CHEATING AT CRAZY 8s OR MONOPOLY

  • 2

    Austin Potter

    5 years ago

    Catches partner cheating... on COD READ THE RULES WIFE GAWD

  • 2

    Lindsey

    7 years ago

    I'd kill that mother fucker

  • 2

    Walrus

    8 years ago

    get caught cheating.. in a test?

  • 2

    Alex Janisse

    9 years ago

    I'm not a piece of shit so....

  • 2

    AtheistPanda

    9 years ago

    Has happened already in a past relationship so I know I can handle it and stay intact. Since I know how painful it can be when your partner is unfaithful, I probably would have a hard time thinking well of myself if I ever cheated. It would probably be harder for me to forgive myself than the other person to forgive me.

  • 2

    TheSeanSe

    9 years ago

    NO SURVIVORS

  • 2

    Eddy Martinez

    9 years ago

    I will feel awful for cheating and if I do i don't declare myself a true man

  • 2

    setrakakan

    9 years ago

    As sad as it is, my boyfriend would probably be more likely to forgive me than I would be to forgive him.

  • 0

    dalfart

    2 weeks ago

    69, nice

  • 1

    SolarSystemGuy

    2 years ago

    69%. Nice.

  • 1

    Kangy

    5 years ago

    then we would be even..

  • 1

    Hobojoewhale

    5 years ago

    get 2 chicks

  • 1

    Serpicnate

    5 years ago

    I thought it meant cheating on a test. Now I feel stupid.

  • 1

    Rebecca

    5 years ago

    If more people prefered to be hurted than hurt, why does the most of the people hurt us? It's non-sense. But it's also kind of sad

  • 1

    Goldendrip52

    6 years ago

    Dont cheat, partener.

  • 1

    El-Syd

    6 years ago

    I wouldn't want to hurt her like that, but if she hurt me like that, knowing that she's a cheater would really help in a divorce.

  • 1

    Hamzah Kotwal

    7 years ago

    Id feel guilty if someone new I was cheating

  • 1

    alphabet609

    7 years ago

    I would not like to betray someone (even if I don't care about them) this question is like "be the cheater or the person everyone wants to hook up with because he/she is weak at the moment"

  • 1

    Travis

    8 years ago

    My partner is my right hand right now, so I'd love to catch her cheating.

  • 1

    Piers Geenty

    8 years ago

    i don't care if my partner catches me using speed hacks

  • 1

    Chimpwagon

    8 years ago

    doesn't matter had sex

  • 1

    Chris

    8 years ago

    depending on the relationship, i dont think i could handle seeing my partner cheat. Id rather cheat and beg for forgiveness

  • 1

    Jayson

    8 years ago

    then discard and move on. honestly I've got it down to a science by now, but that doesn't justify me ever becoming unfaithful

  • 1

    Eetu Saarinen

    8 years ago

    Moral high ground woop

  • 1

    Mehmet Aydın

    8 years ago

    i already did :S

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