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    TonyTheTiger

    8 years ago

    i'm a guy

  • 87

    Grickel

    8 years ago

    I'm a girl and I picked Tomboy because I am one, I don't give a shit about clothes, I play sports and hang out with guys and girls. Girly girls annoy me because that image of girls can always be used against me in sports. Also, from my experience, all they care about is gossip, guys, clothes, beauty, and their thing with never being able to get dirty. That's a waste of time to me

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      Ali

      7 years ago

      gold star award for being a special snowflake!!

    • 27

      Violeta Ordonez

      7 years ago

      Well aren't you special.

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      bekskalot

      7 years ago

      "That image of girls" is perpetuated by a narrow and unimaginative conceptualization of sex and gender. The person who would use that stereotype against you is your problem, not the person being stereotyped. You do the same thing when you typecast us all as vapid gossips. From my experience, being girly simply entails finding pleasure in small things and not being ashamed of enjoying aesthetic beauty.

    • 9

      Triton

      7 years ago

      So you're saying there are only two types of girls: bimbos and heshes?

    • 1

      tuppenycrane

      7 years ago

      greckel and violeta correct as hell, ali;your stupid bekskalot;i dont even know what ur saying triton;no comment

    • 5

      AnotherFishyMuffin

      7 years ago

      I'm a tomboy, and I do give a shit of clothes!! Seriously dude..I just wear guy clothes instead of girl's....But I care of how I look like..

    • 4

      Louise

      7 years ago

      Stereotyping much.

    • 10

      Martyna Berto

      7 years ago

      Girly girls aren't super bad, but the only reason why I don't like certain tomboys are when they try to act like a guy on purpose, trying to get a 12-pack. I'm in between, but, I'd rather be a girly girl than tomboy, in case it took over me, and I wanted to be JUST like a guy.

    • 0

      kangcool09

      6 years ago

      Amen grickel Amen

    • 0

      Kasey

      6 years ago

      ", all they care about is gossip, guys, clothes, beauty, and their thing with never being able to get dirty" I'd be a girly girl. Hell, I could argue that I already am. I ride horses (which requires cleaning them and their stalls), I haven't gossipped since 6th grade, Oh no! I'm so sorry I have an intrest that makes me happy (clothes + beauty)! Also, I'm a lesbian. I don't give a shit about guys. At all.

    • 0

      animegirl

      6 years ago

      I know the feeling but my girly girl friends arent overboard so i dont get bored.

    • 0

      Veronica Hernandez

      6 years ago

      God bless you

    • 0

      bunny_boo123

      5 years ago

      You actually feel exactly the same way I feel !

    • 0

      ellie marre

      4 years ago

      Yaaasss

    • 0

      FireySpirit711

      4 years ago

      Agreed

    • 0

      Eeveeknight

      4 years ago

      I'm a tomboy so this was easy

    • 2

      CheezyLlama

      4 years ago

      OMG like same!!! They all judge me because I'm a girl! I think that if I was a boy they would think I was amazing at sports

    • 3

      Mike

      4 years ago

      Fucking gattling guns, sports, and video games are and should be fun for each gender, girly girls tend to be gossipers that cant put the fucking phone down have zero life. and also have labels which is fucked up, nerds are cool because they arent as dumb as dirt like the people that make fun of them

    • 1

      AlienBenny

      4 years ago

      Can I be a girly girl if I'm actually a boy? They aren't selfish, they just like their own thing... Only the selfish girly girls are selfish, not the nice helpful girly girls... hey I have one as a best friend... there's no problem... Well I think tomboys are sexy, but I don't wanna be one. KAY!?!

    • 0

      Emolgabrine

      3 years ago

      #BestAnswerEver

    • 0

      Mystic_Seer

      3 years ago

      You described me within a paragraph. Minus the sports part, I'm not very athletic ;-; #BestCommentEver

  • 44

    Ceurope

    8 years ago

    Wow so much hate here. There is nothing wrong with being a girly girl or with being a tomboy. Neither personality is invalid.

    • 2

      Elena

      4 years ago

      being stupid is sad though.. that's where all the hate is coming from...

    • 0

      Emolgabrine

      3 years ago

      combo breaker!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • 40

    Khleir Jane

    8 years ago

    im a girl and i think girly girls are childish and are attention whores

    • 17

      [deleted]

      8 years ago

      I don't think you can say that about people you don't spend time with. And why would a GIRL act like a BOY anyway?! Pick one or the other.

    • 13

      Ali

      7 years ago

      i'm not a girly girl but i'd prefer to be one. they get to wear really cute dresses and have pretty hair. i'v been a tomboy my whole life but i'd rather be girly, because they're pretty and you feel fancy.

    • 17

      Gryx

      7 years ago

      that's the most hypocritical thing I've ever seen in my entire life and I've seen steve jobs on television

    • 13

      xxxxallyxxxx

      7 years ago

      why would being girly make you an attention whore? That's so silly to just assume they're all like that.

    • 7

      potterheadd

      7 years ago

      Why would actually trying to look nice make them attention whores. You could be smart and have a great personality and still be pretty. You actually sound like the childish one right now:)

    • 1

      potterheadd

      7 years ago

      Why would actually trying to look nice make them attention whores. You could be smart and have a great personality and still be pretty. You actually sound like the childish one right now:)

    • 4

      addison_beverly

      6 years ago

      Once again people are referring to the term whit girl

    • 0

      Jocelyn Orellana

      6 years ago

      You can't assume all girly girls are like that. And just because a girl wants to feel and look pretty that makes her an attention whore? Yeah, great logic. What even makes a girly girl or tomboy? These terms are so ambiguous.

    • 1

      Jocelyn Orellana

      6 years ago

      You can't assume all girly girls are like that. And just because a girl wants to feel and look pretty that makes her an attention whore? Yeah, great logic. What even makes a girly girl or tomboy? These terms are so ambiguous.

    • 0

      steph

      6 years ago

      We'll I think your probably just aren't pretty making you hate them because they are

    • 0

      steph

      6 years ago

      We'll I think your probably just aren't pretty making you hate them because they are

    • 0

      LEE LEE

      5 years ago

      Hey I am a girly girl and why does being childish have to be a bad thing. Y is being a girly girl worse than being a tomboy I don't understand

    • 1

      Leon Yiffy Mara

      4 years ago

      You're one talkin', sweetie

    • 0

      Jesa

      4 years ago

      I just like wearing cute things. It's my nature, and I was raised this way. However, I was a tomboy at one point... We just gotta try different things y'know? Like maybe being a girly girl could help telling a person that they're better off as a tomboy.

    • 0

      Brianna

      4 years ago

      I'm a girly girl and I'm not. I just kinda like all of that stuff, but I'm not one that stares at the mirror 99% of the time applying lip gloss and spending the 1% putting on nail polish.

    • 0

      FeathersandFreckles

      4 years ago

      Of course you do,do you feel special now?You sound so smart with your stupid stereotypes

    • 0

      FeathersandFreckles

      4 years ago

      Of course you do,do you feel special now?You sound so smart with your stupid stereotypes

    • 0

      AlienBenny

      4 years ago

      Hey... that's rude!

    • 0

      Emolgabrine

      3 years ago

      COMBO BREAKER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!LIKE A BOSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • 1

      Doge The Otaku

      3 years ago

      Being a girly girl means wearing dresses, which I HATE a lot. Girly Girls just go shopping, too obsessed with shopping, beauty and clothes. Being a Tomboy doesn't mean you wanna be a guy, it just means you don't want to be a girly girl. Dresses? I rather have jeans, cool shirt and a hoodie. With calf boots. Shopping? Anime is better.

  • 32

    Spiderpig 8D

    8 years ago

    I'm a girl, and if by "girly girl" you mean dresses and makeup or any other crap, then definitely tomboy. who needs that shit.

    • 9

      bekskalot

      7 years ago

      In the same way that you enjoy whichever activities you use to occupy your free time, I enjoy putting together a beautiful outfit or learning a new makeup technique. We simply choose to develop different skill sets. So please don't call something that I and other people work hard at and enjoy a skill.

    • 5

      sparta_the_cat

      7 years ago

      why wear make up? i would understand a bit of concealer but why hide the image of what humans were born to look like? why in the world would you ant to wear dresses all the time, i find them annoying. if you wear dresses and tank tops all the time you have to buy extra stuff to actually wear them (different undershirts, bras and underwear) that doesnt sound like a pyramid scheme to me at all * sarcasm* .... its just a much easier life stile to not care about what you look like and instead of going to the mall for clothing you buy some off your brother

    • 9

      [deleted]

      7 years ago

      a girly doesn't wear dresses and tank tops all the time. And if a girl did so fucking what? I consider myself a girly girl and i wear every type of clothing i like sneakers and heels,jeans and skirts. etc. If wearing make up makes someone feel beautiful you have no right to say "why wear makeup." The worst type of person is one who makes other feel bad for what they like. So shut the fuck up because there are a lot of different types of "girly girls" and "tomboys" as well.

    • 0

      AnotherFishyMuffin

      7 years ago

      I like that you're called spiderpig XDD

    • 0

      Veronica Hernandez

      6 years ago

      True dat

    • 0

      FireySpirit711

      4 years ago

      Heck yea!

    • 0

      JadeTheSeptic

      3 years ago

      Lol ikr and i'm actually a tomboy/emo kid lol haha

  • 26

    lisbeth

    7 years ago

    Funnily enough, if you're a girl but you're boyish, you'll get teased a bit, but if you're a boy and you're girly, your life is pretty much over,,,

  • 26

    Thatnerdykid

    7 years ago

    Uh... Can I just be female instead of being placed in restrictive boxes? Seriously. Just because you dress more masculine doesn't mean you're into sports, or a lesbian, as people here have suggested. Similarly, just because you dress more feminine doesn't make you a vapid gossipping bitch.

    • 1

      sparta_the_cat

      7 years ago

      technically if you dress a certain way you you will be pulled into a certain group of people, and that will affect how you act. for example, i ddnt give a fuck about what i wore so i ended up with all guy freinds, now im a usual tomboy, but if i wore dresses all the time and wore make up im pretty sure those guys wouldsee me as a bitch because of my appearance and they wont take an effort to talk to me.

    • 0

      [deleted]

      7 years ago

      Right.

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      [deleted]

      7 years ago

      well "spartathecat" i dress with Dresses and skirts but jeans and t shirts too. & i have alot of guy friends and girl friends too. Just out of curiosity how does dressing a certain way make you a bitch? also i havent been pulled into a certain group of people. i talk to everyone.

    • 2

      FakeTearsDryFaster

      6 years ago

      Ok sparta the cat, I beg to differ. The way I dress, I could be one of the popular kids ad school, but I am not because I have completely different interests from the popular kids. I don't care for their philosophical conversations on working out, who's hot and who isn't, stupid things people do at parties, drinking and drugs, television and pop culture, gossip, etc. I bother with how I look because I like to feel presentable.

  • 24

    Bob Smith

    7 years ago

    I'm a girl and i'm just a tomboy because i'm lazy to get all dressed up all the time, and i play sports. We can be friends with girly girls too, just we have different interests.

  • 16

    [deleted]

    8 years ago

    If I'm a girl then I should act like one...plus there's another word for tomboys: insecure he/she's.

    • 49

      LoyalJoker

      8 years ago

      People will act as they please. You have no right judging someone like that just because they behave and dress differently.

    • 7

      bingo95

      8 years ago

      everyone is gonna judge anyway so let the judges be judged and vice verses a and I happen to agree completely with gar

    • 19

      rubberlikewalrus

      8 years ago

      so im an insecure guy for acting like a guy?

    • 4

      JoeyBonzo

      7 years ago

      My anthropology teacher would strangle you for saying that

    • 29

      Violeta Ordonez

      7 years ago

      Fuck you. There is NO way to act like a gender. People are completely diverse and should act as they please. Some girls like having "boyish" clothing but also enjoy the occasional dress and makeup.

    • 9

      Datchcole

      7 years ago

      So, uh. What's your definition of girl and how I should act exactly? Idiot.

    • 1

      OFFICER_ASS

      7 years ago

      How about people just have different preferences?

    • 1

      maxinator13

      7 years ago

      Jerk

    • 1

      FireySpirit711

      4 years ago

      At least I'm not obsessed with make-up and all that shit

    • 0

      Denissa.squid

      4 years ago

      BITCH I AM MORE SECURE THAN YOUR FAKE ASS FACE ! WHATS YOUR PROBLEM ?! GET A LIFE ! WHAT ARE U EVEN DOING ON THE INTERNET? CAN YOU NOT SEE WHO IS WINNING THIS DEBAIT?! Oh and a smart idoea would be that you will put the make up down : 1 make up ages your cells wich let translate for u make up makes your face look like my grand mas saggy arms 2 you look like a hooker ( maybe even are one ) 3 you are the insecure one because you use make up to cover your flaws and imperfections and dress up to impress we tomboys dont flip a shit and why should we plus as long as i get internet a pennyboard my laptop an infinite stack of snacks head phones wifi chlotes my basemnt a bed a tv and books then bitch i am set i will never leave and a toillet woild be required btw . #YOLO

    • 0

      Denissa.squid

      4 years ago

      oh and you are probably ten as well so now go play with the kids we adults need to be way more awesome than you

    • 1

      Sheri

      3 years ago

      No. It's doesn't mean you act like a boy, you crackhead. It means you're not constantly loving pink and dresses and shopping. There is no way to act like a girl (au am a girl)

  • 12

    Bob Smith

    7 years ago

    I'm a tomboy and i dress up sometimes but most of the time it just takes too much time and it's uncomfortable.

  • 12

    PotatoMan

    7 years ago

    thisismyfetish.jpg

  • 12

    The1stDuckman

    8 years ago

    I'm a guy and I want to be a Girly girl :P

    • 13

      435

      8 years ago

      Can you imagine? All the clothing options, all the shoes...

    • 2

      Denissa.squid

      4 years ago

      wtf

    • 0

      FireySpirit711

      4 years ago

      Yeah, can you also imagine all the stupidity, overdosed makeup, and hate from 58% over the 42 just like you? Hmmm... yea. That's what I'm imagining

    • 0

      lisabett

      4 years ago

      FireySpirit771, you sound like a insecure bitch with a shitload of complexes you're trying to solve by desperately trying to make others feel bad. Girly girl means you enjoy wearing dresses/skirts, heels e.t.c. without being uncomfortable, and wearing makeup doesn't make a person any less worthy. I can assure you, it's better to be a "cake face" with a personality of a social butterfly than be a "cool" tomboy with a personality of an old dog shit. (talking about you, boo)

    • 0

      AlienBenny

      4 years ago

      I FEEL THE SAME!!! IT'S THE BEST THING IMO!!

  • 11

    beachhousefan

    7 years ago

    Could this be easier? Dumb.

  • 7

    FairyTailFan

    7 years ago

    Thanks to Mean Girls XD, girly girls are being stereo typed Dx

  • 7

    Matt Riddell

    7 years ago

    Being a girly girl, would be hard work. Tomboys don't need to do their hair and make up or keep their clothes clean.

  • 7

    Dragneel

    7 years ago

    I'm already more "tomboy" than a girly-girl

  • 7

    ashley

    8 years ago

    Well most Girly girls are all stuck up in their own preppiness! So seriously I don't think this is much of a question.

  • 7

    Christopher Canton

    8 years ago

    If it's a question of who I would date,tomboy.They're more fun to be around.

  • 6

    SunnyCrapCake

    7 years ago

    There are a group of 'girly girls' at my school, and most of them are the most annoying, unintelligent, arrogant, self-obsessed people I've ever met. There is a nice group of them, but I'm just not interested in lipstick and am more interested in rollerblading.

    • 2

      SunnyCrapCake

      7 years ago

      But I'm more of a nerd than a tomboy anyway :P I do actually kind of like dresses.

    • 1

      FireySpirit711

      4 years ago

      Then your kinda on the line of tom boy and girly girl. I'd call you just a girl. Because Pure Tomboy 101- NO DRESSES OR CRAP

  • 5

    Morgan

    7 years ago

    Tomboy cuz girly girls are Freaking whimps. I'm a country girl!

  • 5

    EchoLily

    7 years ago

    Im already a tomboy ... weird.

  • 5

    Nadja

    7 years ago

    Being a girly girl does not mean that you are stupid, and being a tomboy does not mean that you are smart. Today's trend is to be a "gamer girl" that acts like one of the boys, and any girl who is classified as "girly" is stupid and fake, which is absolutely not true! I like being a girl, wearing dresses and makeup, but I'm also smart, like to read, and I can talk about many things, not just cute outfits and hot boys!

  • 5

    Patrick Lessmiller

    7 years ago

    Rainbow Fucking Dash

  • 5

    Emily

    7 years ago

    Of course a gurly gurl(;

  • 4

    Vickiiii

    5 years ago

    I'm a happy tomboy sooooo fuck ya'll

  • 4

    Flávio Sousa

    7 years ago

    I would be an awful girly girl. And I have no patience with girly things

  • 4

    MusicFurLyfe

    7 years ago

    I'm sort of in the middle in real life

  • 4

    LordTetris

    7 years ago

    I"m more of a genderless being. Nothing wrong with being girly girl though!

  • 4

    Katie

    8 years ago

    tomboys = lesbians

    • 18

      OhsnapitzEleanor

      8 years ago

      Wanker. You can't go into assumptions like that. Not all tomboys are lesbians. Some tomboys just dress in a T-shirt, sweatpants, and sneakers. That's how I usually dress.

    • 4

      sparta_the_cat

      7 years ago

      being a lesbian is allot different , if your lesbian you are born that way, if your a tomboy, youre raised that way....

    • 2

      Senaya dawson

      7 years ago

      No that is not true!!!

    • 2

      SamanthaSchumer

      7 years ago

      I grew up not being allowed to be girly, you get down and dirty no matter what you're doing. As I got older I started wearing make-up, but I still wear jeans and hoodies and boots everyday. It doesn't make me a lesbian...

    • 2

      Ashley

      6 years ago

      This is the attitude everybody's talking about with girly girls. Always judging people and never giving them a real chance. Fuck you

    • 2

      Veronica Hernandez

      6 years ago

      Fuck you bitch

    • 4

      FireySpirit711

      4 years ago

      Well, your stuck up. I think the only reason you posted that was to make yourself feel better about your own issues and neither tomboys, nor girly girls, are lesbian.

    • 1

      Denissa.squid

      4 years ago

      UMMM HEY BITCH I AM NOT A FUCKING LESBIAN GOT THAT !? I dont have a problem against homosexuals but calling someone that its just a low blow and as twamiz would say : BIIITCH YOU JUST CALLED ME A SEXUALITY !? OMG I AM JUST ABOUT TO MOTHERFUCKING CRY !!!!! ( sarcasm bitch one of my many services others include insulting sluts * cough* like you * cough* kicking ass at everything being a silent ninja and a FUCKING STRAIGHT PERSON !) btw you : dumb

  • 4

    D'vaughn Clarke

    8 years ago

    id rather date a girly girl...

  • 4

    Tiffany

    8 years ago

    girlicious

  • 4

    [deleted]

    8 years ago

    The same goes for you. What gives YOU the right to judge my opinion?

    • 12

      Violeta Ordonez

      7 years ago

      The fact that your opinion is a bitch. YOU are saying people SHOULD act a certain way due to their vagina or penis EVERYONE ELSE is saying they should have the personality they want regardless of the bits they have between their legs or on their chest.

  • 4

    Demon1981

    8 years ago

    I'm a guy and if this is who you would date instead I would go with tomboy you try to avoid being your true self around a girly girl or at least I do

    • 17

      [deleted]

      8 years ago

      Don't blame a girly girl for what you do by yourself. Be who you are and if she doesn't like it then that's her problem.

    • 0

      xDERAHOLLAx

      3 years ago

      true

  • 3

    Alexander :)

    7 years ago

    Tomboy is already me so YEPPIE :D

  • 2

    blair

    6 years ago

    im a girly girl anyway

  • 2

    sarahverbruggen

    6 years ago

    girly girly here, doesn't mean i wear foundation t'ill my face looks orange. I just like dresses and stuff gosh some people are so butthurt

  • 2

    Dylan Skyrider

    6 years ago

    I'm a guy and picked tomboy just so I could comment. What I commented to say, was that I've noticed something. Tomboys complain about how they hate girly girls and stereotype them while complaining about being stereotyped. I had that prissy, preppy, fashion whoring, spoiled and quiz cheating bitch as much as the next guy. But just because you don't love sports doesn't mean you're one of those girls. Any way, both sides seem to complain about the other and stereotype them... while complaining about being stereotyped. It's like, complaining about having Christianity forced on you while you literally force Mormonism on others. It's hypocritical. Another thing. Someone in the comment section said that their first love was a tomboy... now that I think about it... I knew a girl named Samantha who was somewhat of a tomboy (but not in a butch way). She loved riding horses and considering that I barely get any exercise, would beat me in any physical competition. In a sense, I was more of the girl than the guy. Either way though. I did like her. Not sure if I loved her but I did have a crush on her (at least a little bit). I don't see her anymore though... Switching topics. I have a solution. Just do whatever the f*k you want as long as you aren't being cruel to others. You prefer to be more clean and pretty? Fine. You prefer to not be a wuss and just do sh*t without complaints... maybe play sports (it's hard to represent tomboys well I may need help)? Fine. If you read all of this, here's a reward. A picture of a Bacon strip. adf.ly/UoBdM Enjoy

  • 2

    Alex

    6 years ago

    There's a difference between being a girly girl and being a slut. -__-"

  • 2

    Swift

    7 years ago

    I'm a guy...so maybe a tomboy for my gf?

  • 2

    Katiki

    7 years ago

    Already am, WOO

  • 2

    fgim62

    7 years ago

    Does this make me double a man or hwat

  • 2

    Rupert Giles

    7 years ago

    I wouldnt be able to dress in a nice suit if I was a girly girl...

    • 2

      xMeggieManiacal

      7 years ago

      Pfft. You are not the real Giles. Giles would not waste his time on a silly site such as this.

  • 2

    Max_Steak

    8 years ago

    Super secret vagina.

  • 2

    ashley

    8 years ago

    Personally, I think more girls tend to grow up as tomboys and continue to stay tomboys!

  • 2

    [deleted]

    8 years ago

    ...I'm a girl now? Man, whatever, I'm just gonna keep playing Dredmor.

  • 0

    Aaron the clown

    1 month ago

    If I was a tomboy it means I'm a GAY

  • 1

    ChipFan111

    2 years ago

    More like would you rather be Lana or Lola from the Loud House

  • 1

    daewin

    3 years ago

    i think im both of them? Like I can be both tomboy and then girly and both at the same time

  • 1

    Adrian

    4 years ago

    At least tomboys have bigger boobs than girly girls. And I'm a male

  • 1

    Halle

    4 years ago

    Already am one

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