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73% Have grown up without a father

27% Have grown up without a mother

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  • 699

    Guardianz89

    8 years ago

    well i already grew up with a father

  • 77

    Guardianz89

    8 years ago

    well i already grew up without a father, wanting to delete that other comment now >.<

    • 17

      Sally

      6 years ago

      I already grew up without a mother.

    • 10

      Kat

      6 years ago

      I have a dad, but he feels like a stranger sooooo....yeah, I'd rather keep my mom instead.

    • 11

      MeGustaL0T

      5 years ago

      I grew up without a dad AT ALL! He doesnt spend a DIME on me not even when i was young he doesnt even know my favorite color.

    • 3

      Sterlingsilver85163

      4 years ago

      I feel bad for people without mothers. I had a friend of mine who doesn't have a mom, and during a sleepover she started crying and I said I will do anything to make you happy and I asked what and she said you cant do it and I asked WHAT? And she said bring my mom back.

    • 0

      AidanJM

      3 years ago

      ssme

    • 1

      ADOLFKITLER

      3 years ago

      same here. i have a step-dad now

    • 0

      RandomGuy1466

      2 years ago

      Sorry about your dad, but at least you still have your mum.

    • 0

      ☯Chilled☯

      2 years ago

      To anyone without a mother or father I'm so sorry.

    • 1

      Noah Brule

      2 years ago

      i grew up without a father too

  • 43

    oxytocin93

    8 years ago

    well i'v gone 18 years with out my dad so i guess i could go 18 more...

  • 40

    firehawk2324

    8 years ago

    Hated my father. Love my mother. Easy answer.

  • 34

    QuestIan

    8 years ago

    My poppa means the world to me.

    • 10

      Leon8455

      7 years ago

      You spelled that wrong you dip shit

    • 57

      Emily

      7 years ago

      Fuck off, Leon.

    • 2

      SmoothCriminal

      5 years ago

      Aww that's sweet

    • 0

      SmoothCriminal

      5 years ago

      Aww that's sweet

    • 6

      LeaderOfVivaLaDBA

      4 years ago

      Leon, it's called informal southern English.

    • 2

      PapiDimmi

      3 years ago

      That's adorable!

    • 4

      shadowthewolf

      3 years ago

      to Leon8455: go burn alive in fucking hell you stupid motherfucking piece of cyber bullying shit if you continue on with cyber bullying no one will like you so please stop bullying people because you will never succeed in life if you bully people and thats a stupid thing to be mad about he/she just spelled it wrong that doesn't mean you have to call him/her dip shit.

    • 2

      Drey

      3 years ago

      @Leon8455 You must have problems and if so tell us (Although your account was like years ago)

    • 2

      Quan

      3 years ago

      @Leon8455 that's a perfectly legit spelling.

  • 23

    [deleted]

    8 years ago

    I hate my mother. So this works.

    • 0

      TerraC

      6 years ago

      I know that feel.

    • 3

      faresarafat

      6 years ago

      Oh so u hatw a woman u gave borth tp u for 9 months and got tired for u....

    • 17

      Leroy Jenkins

      5 years ago

      @fare since when do you give birth to your mother?

    • 2

      DERPZgaming

      5 years ago

      XD good point leroy XD

    • 1

      TheNerdThatSleepsWithinUs

      3 years ago

      @Leroy lmao

    • 0

      Grace

      2 years ago

      same, my mother left my sister and me for drugs but my father saved me, he is my hero

    • 0

      Sincerely Crazed

      1 year ago

      faresarafat thats what most people like you dont get, you know how many women only have a baby for the money it brings in, you try to use the fact that you give birth as an excuse to get love. seriously fuck off, A man cant possibly give birth but when he loves his child and something happen to them i bet you hed do 10x more about it instead of crying like some mother would do.... you just dont get it

  • 20

    TehSpaceSnake

    7 years ago

    I practically never had a father until now and if my mom wasn't around I would have had to make my own dinner at the age of 5 and walk to school on my own... Living in a city at that young is A LOT of risks. So honestly if my father were to dissapear it wouldn't make much of a difference other than less money but we were always poor so it makes no difference. Although it's the opposite way with my boyfriend. His father was better than his mom.

    • 9

      Leon8455

      7 years ago

      No one cares in the slightest, don't share your petty little stories on the internet dumb fuck.

    • 23

      tyler

      7 years ago

      Leon your a fucking asshole go kill yourself. No one would show up at your funeral or even cry over it because no one fucking cares about you. Not even your parents.

    • 16

      BearsAreDumb

      6 years ago

      Jesus, Leon is a piece of shit.

    • 4

      DERPZgaming

      5 years ago

      leon just shut the fuck up and go to your normal weird ass life and mind your own bizz

    • 5

      Connor

      5 years ago

      Don't listen to leon. He's being a dick to everyone on here.

    • 5

      Connor

      5 years ago

      Don't listen to leon. He's being a dick to everyone on here.

    • 5

      Connor

      5 years ago

      Don't listen to leon. He's being a dick to everyone on here.

    • 0

      Tommy

      3 years ago

      hhhahahahhahah your dad ran away

    • 3

      shadowthewolf

      3 years ago

      leon go fucking kill yourself or just shut the fuck up no one cares about you you little fucking piece of shit.

    • 1

      Drey

      3 years ago

      @Leon8455 Dude shut the fuck up this happens to other people you know and it's true also I am Fatherless myself so I understand him

  • 19

    mapxvc

    7 years ago

    You can't really debate this. People are just going to answer based off of life experience. My dad is an asshole, so naturally I prefer my mother.

    • 0

      fucker

      2 years ago

      I hate my god damn fucking mother

  • 12

    OhsnapitzEleanor

    7 years ago

    My mum did all the shit when I was growing up...

  • 11

    Val

    6 years ago

    Mother can replace father easily

    • 4

      Val

      6 years ago

      Fathers don't do much now a days anyway

    • 0

      TeamXtreme

      2 years ago

      They impregnate the soon-to-be mothers.

    • 1

      Piotr Grochowski

      2 years ago

      In my case she can't. My father is much nicer than my annoying mother.

  • 9

    espen johansen

    7 years ago

    i have already grown up without a father anyways so it doesen't matter

    • 1

      shadowthewolf

      3 years ago

      i grew up with no parents because they both died. although my mom died 1st.

  • 9

    Mikhail Equality Har

    7 years ago

    My mother's a bitch and can get shot in the face. My father is an amazing human being. This wasn't much of a decision for me.

    • 2

      Tigerlol

      5 years ago

      The person who carried you for 9 months and birthed you is a bitch that can get shot in the face? She probably could have had an abortion, you know.

    • 1

      shadowthewolf

      3 years ago

      guess what mikhail my mom is better than my dad because my dad was abusive. plus how can you say that to the person that gave birth to you and loves you so much? moms are like our second god since they are the one who gave birth to us, they care for us a lot believe it or not.

    • 2

      Dellll

      3 years ago

      @shadowthewolf My mom was incredibly hurtful, both physically and verbally. My father was the one to stand up for us when she went too far. "second god"? Not by a long shot.

    • 0

      Grace

      2 years ago

      Hey Tigerlol and shadowthewolf, mothers can be hurtful and horrible, yeah they gave birth to you but does that honestly fucking matter? my mum dumped me for drugs when i was 9 and my dad was there for me. it is about who cares and loves you, not who gave birth to you. Mikhail Equality Har's mum could have been a horrible person.

    • 0

      Mintydamint

      2 years ago

      I Agree!! My mother would actually abuse my father and all she would would do is sit on the couch and be lazy while my dad worked hard and raised me and my sister..

    • 0

      Sincerely Crazed

      1 year ago

      Tigerlol giving birth does not mean someone loves you and they could of easily been in for it for the money.... men cant give birth and you know that now fuck off

  • 9

    skittles

    7 years ago

    I couldn't live without. Both of my wonderful parents

  • 9

    Dane Wolfer

    7 years ago

    Ive lived my whole life with out a dad anyways

  • 8

    Dylan

    7 years ago

    My dad makes all the money ...

  • 7

    purpchic ^_^

    5 years ago

    Think about how awkward it would be to tell your dad your on your period..... °~°

    • 0

      Coco_shi<3

      1 year ago

      i always told him, and isn't awkward, also, he is who buys me sanitary towels, not my mom. lol

  • 7

    TerraC

    6 years ago

    Well, my mom left us, so I already grew up without her. My dad is a better person, anyway. ^^

  • 6

    Batman

    7 years ago

    ...

  • 6

    iloveglobes

    8 years ago

    As a mother, I now know how important she is in my life. My dad is a POS.

  • 5

    Sexy man

    5 years ago

    I could fuck my mom erry day

  • 5

    AccioFreaks

    6 years ago

    I've never loved my father anyways.

  • 5

    Brandon Lee

    6 years ago

    my dads a cheater fucking mainland commie!!!

    • 1

      shadowthewolf

      3 years ago

      my dad is a asshole since he abused me after my moms death and i was 4 at the time and then married someone else and left me with my little brother,little sister and my big brother who i truly hate. and 3 days after he got married to the woman and left us so we could be orphan he got stabbed and died. I'm truly happy for his death. thank you so much god.

  • 5

    Nicole Arthur

    7 years ago

    My father died when i was ten so....

    • 0

      Taco

      3 years ago

      Mine did too I was also ten

    • 0

      shadowthewolf

      3 years ago

      my dad died when i was 18 I'm so happy he died he was really abusive.

  • 4

    Doctor Awesome

    6 years ago

    My parents are divorced and I lived with my father. :

  • 4

    JessePinkman

    7 years ago

    My moms a BITCH yo

  • 4

    nicobellic1994

    8 years ago

    already grew up without a father so voted for without mother...

    • 1

      Pe Keen

      7 years ago

      Y

    • 0

      nicobellic1994

      7 years ago

      shit. didn't notice my mistake. I've been to dumb to think at that moment I guess...meant to say only with mother so without a father.

    • 0

      Thomas

      1 year ago

      i grew up with both, i made a random choice

  • 3

    Sean

    3 years ago

    I don't even have a dad

  • 3

    sarahhhh___michelleee

    6 years ago

    I grew up with out a father anyway

  • 3

    SmoshRules

    6 years ago

    I didn't grow up with a father soooooo............

  • 3

    Jack Van de Ven

    6 years ago

    Talk about making me feel guilty as fuck! Sorry dad

  • 3

    Ramses Beau Bams

    6 years ago

    i'm doing both right now...

  • 3

    Slender Man

    7 years ago

    I didnt grow up with anyone. Because i killed them with my static electricity.

  • 2

    Mystic_Seer

    2 years ago

    Fathers can show love, but it's only a fraction compared to a mother's Mothers will always love you, because they went through all that labour to bring you into the world

  • 2

    Piotr Grochowski

    2 years ago

    I hate my mom so it'll be good.

  • 2

    KAI

    2 years ago

    a lot of people are gonna hate me because I chose red but the reasoning for this is because my mom abuses me a lot here is a list of things she did 1.throw pliers at me 2.try to drown me in a bathtub 3.kick me into a box splitting my lip. 4.throw a huge toy truck at me point blank 5.sucker punch me in the gut and mouth 6.throw me down two flights of stairs cracking my skull open and breaking my arm and leg and she left me there for 3+ hours until my dad got home and took me to the hospital.

  • 2

    Sally Looms

    3 years ago

    I havent seen my father since i was 5

  • 2

    Christopher Townsend

    3 years ago

    I dont really have a father

  • 2

    Skixxem

    3 years ago

    I already grew up without a father

  • 2

    Skixxem

    3 years ago

    I already grew up without a father

  • 2

    Gavin Connell

    3 years ago

    Every Mother or Father question Mother wins I mean dad isn't chopped liver is he?

  • 2

    Julia

    3 years ago

    My dad left so I'd rather be with my mother who loves me than a father who didn't care about me. And considering I love my mother to death I wouldn't trade her for the world

  • 2

    Pen bacani

    3 years ago

    WHY WOULD YOU MAKE THIS???!!!

  • 2

    Cassie Nicole

    3 years ago

    You will forever have parents no matter if they passed away, they abandoned you, or couldn't take care of you and had to give you up ect, you always have parents please everyone remember that

  • 2

    chaz123

    3 years ago

    kinda already did, my mom was an alcoholic and I had to take care of my younger brother because she did not want to leave the couch

  • 2

    Kenneth Smith

    5 years ago

    If you knew my mother, you'd understand.

  • 2

    Nabil Bashir

    6 years ago

    I grew up without a mother,it was/is really tough,but I guess it would be tougher without a father,mostly because he is the provider!

  • 2

    LORD TAVISH

    6 years ago

    moms can cook for you :)

  • 2

    BrandieO'Raidy

    6 years ago

    I wish I grew up without a father

  • 2

    Maya Lynn Rotflol

    6 years ago

    Im adopted. With only a mother.

  • 2

    Judson Taylor Nagle

    6 years ago

    I already grew up without a father.

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