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  • 920

    ewoksarelikeu

    9 years ago

    Dude, if anything that just ups my chances it having a threesome.

    • 328

      Cody (:

      6 years ago

      That question is so one sided. Of course id want my gf banging another chick.

    • 73

      Jake

      6 years ago

      that was my line of thinking

    • 37

      cowsinmilk

      6 years ago

      gay men take care of themselves, good for everyone

    • 129

      Lord English

      6 years ago

      Girl on girl is hot.

    • 120

      Cave Johnson

      6 years ago

      didn't think about that, Fuck!!!

    • 53

      Crazydude1071

      6 years ago

      I didn't think about that. shit

    • 21

      KingT23

      6 years ago

      Although I agree, this doesn't always work out well for the man....

    • 13

      Bruce Wayne

      6 years ago

      Truer words have never been spoken

    • 9

      TntVideos

      5 years ago

      Holy shit. I totally want homosexuality in ma house.

    • 98

      publicmasturbator123

      5 years ago

      "oh honey, so sorry i didnt tell you about this, is there any way i can make it up to you?" *porn music begins*

    • 16

      Batman

      5 years ago

      @Cody (: Good for you, You have two girls, and I... have... Robin...and... some other random... gu- DAMMIT!

    • 35

      MOZZ

      5 years ago

      i'd be afraid i was so bad a boyfriend i'd turned her gay

    • 15

      nigg

      5 years ago

      you must be joking. you want to have the rep of you being such shit that yo girlfriend turned gay?

    • 64

      Fainting Goat

      5 years ago

      A homosexual affair would just mean that he/she isn't interested in you because he/she prefers her/his own gender. A heterosexual affair would imply that he/she isn't happy or satisfied with you, making you more devastated

    • 28

      Foxy Boxes

      5 years ago

      Or it could just mean she's bisexual and wants to experiment. What's not to like?

    • 3

      Jordytraver

      5 years ago

      Not really, because the girl will be a lesbian

    • 2

      Jordytraver

      5 years ago

      Not really, because the girl will be a lesbian

    • 7

      Lolerz

      5 years ago

      If a girl would have to choose, it'd be a lose lose situation

    • 12

      Sebastion

      5 years ago

      Jordy, not really, I'm bisexual, and my partner's bisexual. Did you even realize Bisexuality exists?

    • 2

      manorca

      5 years ago

      dude here threesome would be nice

    • 9

      Michelle

      5 years ago

      Its okay. I ship gay couples in my class.

    • 5

      QueenscessKrystal

      4 years ago

      Yes! yes! Yaoi (boyxboy) moments for me to watch!!!!

    • 3

      Samuel Easton

      4 years ago

      I'm gay also! Lol

    • 1

      Samuel Easton

      4 years ago

      I'm gay also! Lol

    • 4

      Claufia

      4 years ago

      Boy on boy?...Maaan,that would be the best yaoi ever

    • 6

      God

      4 years ago

      I approve this message

    • 0

      kiara

      4 years ago

      Shit

    • 1

      kiara

      4 years ago

      Shit

    • 0

      kiara

      4 years ago

      Shit

    • 0

      kiara

      4 years ago

      Shit

    • 0

      kiara

      4 years ago

      Shit

    • 0

      kiara

      4 years ago

      Shit

    • 2

      kiara

      4 years ago

      Shit

    • 0

      kiara

      4 years ago

      Shit

    • 0

      kiara

      4 years ago

      Shit

    • 0

      kiara

      4 years ago

      Shit

    • 0

      kiara

      4 years ago

      Shit

    • 0

      kiara

      4 years ago

      Shit

    • 0

      L1L F1RE

      4 years ago

      I was gonna say watch, but you, you hit the nail on the head

    • 4

      rammsteinfan

      4 years ago

      it would hurt less if my g/f cheated with a girl than with a guy (especially if he was a friend of mine)

    • 0

      Amber Byrum

      4 years ago

      Thats exactly what i thought

    • 0

      lil'ghost

      4 years ago

      Bruh

    • 0

      TsG

      3 years ago

      Mein Neger

    • 0

      XenoEvil

      2 years ago

      Hey, it says homosexual, not bisexual. I would rather not force my partner into an uncomfortable relationship.

    • 5

      Charged_z

      2 years ago

      Whats The Downside ? Threesome With My Gf ! That Would Be Terrific :D

    • 1

      Destroyah340

      2 years ago

      While I love the idea of that, it would damage my self-esteem even worse than it already is if my partner was with another woman ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

    • 0

      Destroyah340

      2 years ago

      While I love the idea of that, it would damage my self-esteem even worse than it already is if my partner was with another woman ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

    • 3

      Themegabro

      2 years ago

      Can i watch?

    • 2

      Jarne Verlinden

      2 years ago

      Man you're so right

    • 1

      LunaWing

      2 years ago

      ikr

    • 7

      Pakutto

      2 years ago

      Isn't that terrible that most people are thinking "HAHA THAT'D BE HOT" though? What happened to loving someone until you die, and hoping you both are loyal to eachother? If you honestly wouldn't be hurt by your GF cheating on you, regardless of the gender, then you have some relationship problems you might need to sort out.

    • 1

      purplegirl1987

      2 years ago

      i just have to say that its sad that someone even made this question

    • 2

      chedder

      2 years ago

      same her i was thinking just have a three some

    • 2

      Deadpool

      2 years ago

      I would get to see my gf go down on another chick :creepymegusta:

    • 1

      rexerrose

      2 years ago

      true

    • 1

      Andrei Nica

      2 years ago

      Respect man

    • 1

      TraxxAttaxx

      2 years ago

      Exactly

    • 1

      anto

      2 years ago

      dude now you made me wanna masterbate

    • 0

      BottonGinger

      2 years ago

      Yeah, with two guys.

    • 0

      Vitork15

      2 years ago

      I submit wrong because i didn't understanded at first ;-;

    • 0

      Destroyah340

      2 years ago

      Unless of course, you're such a shitty partner in & out of bed, it forced her to play for the other team forever

    • 0

      Destroyah340

      2 years ago

      Unless of course, you're such a shitty partner in & out of bed, it forced her to play for the other team forever

    • 0

      GummyBear_Gamer

      2 years ago

      Yup

    • 0

      Sam

      2 years ago

      I should have picked heterosexual because i'm not gonna kick the shit out of a girl, but your point is also good

    • 1

      TurdManJones

      2 years ago

      Three Some ;-;

    • 1

      anonymous

      2 years ago

      ⚆ _ ⚆

    • 0

      Ben

      2 years ago

      yea

    • 0

      Alyssa

      2 years ago

      Why?? So You wouold rather KILL Your friend than yourself?

    • 0

      Cutang

      2 years ago

      Fuck

    • 0

      rain silves

      1 year ago

      or just watch girl on girl/ guy on guy depending on your sexual preferance, not judging

    • 0

      JulijaFromSlovenija

      1 year ago

      im a 10 year old soo idk what they are both...

    • 0

      Eve

      1 year ago

      FoxyBones, Being Gay, Pan, Lesbian or Bi is not a choice. It is who you were born to be

    • 0

      shaun

      1 year ago

      i know regret picking red

    • 0

      danTRM

      1 year ago

      WAY THIS CRAP

    • 0

      rafaelsolano387

      1 year ago

      But I don't hit girls, so i can't beat them again.

    • 0

      Felipe

      11 months ago

      My thoughts exactly.

    • 0

      FRIKINORANGEJUICE

      10 months ago

      Eve... you are right but like it's just something that you are that you can't control. Just like Mr lord english was adopted

    • 0

      Eleanor

      3 months ago

      Their new partner could cheat on them and go out with me >:D

  • 119

    [deleted]

    7 years ago

    as a gay man, I have to say that both of these scenarios would be equally as devastating

    • 14

      nixthat

      6 years ago

      thank you.

    • 5

      Ryan Porter

      6 years ago

      Yeah

    • 11

      Johan Leth Gregersen

      6 years ago

      I would not be happy i have to say that, but if it was, in my case homosexual, and in yours heterosexual, i would take it less out on my self. I'd think it might not be because i'm not a suitable mate, but more because my significant other have some urges i cannot fulfill.

    • 0

      LMGN

      1 year ago

      Same, I voted Red, They'd be less likely to go with the affair

  • 57

    JForrestQ

    9 years ago

    It removes the possibility of someone else planting their seed where it doesn't belong. Also, as a plus it does indeed increase the chances for a threesome. The only downside is the possibility of the person switching teams, leaving you out in the cold.

    • 14

      Tamlen

      6 years ago

      You're fucked if it happens to be a transwoman.

    • 1

      Slurp

      2 years ago

      No one wants to be Ross from Friends. . .

  • 38

    GSBro

    6 years ago

    Um, either my girlfriend being a bitch or being a lesbian um how is this even a fucking question. Like ewokarelikeu said, a better chance at a threesome.

  • 32

    Andrew Schwartz

    9 years ago

    It would be hot.

  • 31

    tmanwater

    6 years ago

    I am a homosexual, so my partner will (most likely) have a homosexual affair.

    • 14

      RyanScott

      5 years ago

      gayyyyyyyyyyyyy

    • 11

      Sebastion

      5 years ago

      Ryan, what's wrong with being gay, lesbian or bisexual?

    • 7

      Nélio Soares

      4 years ago

      Sebastion, it's a joke not a dick. Don't take it so hard.

    • 0

      Skatewitch

      11 months ago

      Hey Sebastion. I'm like really gay and me and my girlfriend do this joke like every second time we hug each other...

  • 22

    Laylah

    7 years ago

    Why don't men ever think about having a threesome with their woman and another guy? Trust me, she's thought about it.

    • 30

      MarkTheGr8

      6 years ago

      Because it's gay. Why don't women think more about a threesome with another girl more often?

    • 26

      Sunny Marie Jackson

      6 years ago

      girl on girl is just as gay as guy on guy

    • 3

      UnholyGuacamole

      6 years ago

      Agreed! And I have thought about having a threesome with a girl if my man wanted it, and I'd do it. So why not have a threesome with another guy? It's the same

    • 2

      Jacob

      5 years ago

      I really don't think it's the same, and if evolutionary biology has any merit, it shouldn't be the same. Historically, if a female cheats, that means it's highly likely she will bear another male's offspring, which is catastrophic for her mate's chance of replicating his genes. This means that an instinct to take extreme measures to prevent this would be selected for in natural selection. This is the origin of extreme male emotional reactions against female infidelity. If a man cheats, the sex is not the issue. It's not problem for a female if the male goes and mates with other females, as long as he provides sufficient care for her and her offspring. A man having sex with another woman is a problem because it's a sign that he might be leaving or not caring enough. When a woman has sex with another man, that itself is the disaster. No matter how 'little it meant'.

    • 2

      Jacob

      5 years ago

      Actually, a woman should be seriously alarmed if a man agrees to have a threesome with another guy. It's most likely a sign that he's not going to stay with her in the long run. If he was seriously planning to raise her kids, he would never let another man into her vagina. Otherwise he's managed to bypass his instinct by some kind of zen mindwarp, which is of course great.

    • 2

      SomeGuyOverThere

      4 years ago

      @Jacob That's the origin of these instincts, but the logic doesn't really apply in modern society. He might not want it to happen for originally primal reasons, but if he agreed it would be more likely to be because he cares enough to overcome jealousy, not because he doesn't care enough to be jealous. Also, I'm not an expert on group sex, but I don't think either partner specifically needs to be in the vagina.

    • 0

      Rising_Star_

      2 years ago

      because men nowadays are not secure being naked around other men.

  • 15

    Kalle Engberg

    6 years ago

    I have a deal with my girlfriend since way back. She can have all the homosexual encounters she wants as long as there is photographic evidence for me to enjoy.

  • 13

    codbl4l

    6 years ago

    Everyone that said homosexual just for girl-on-girl shouldn't ever even be in a relationship and should just chop off their dicks. Seriously, you're all tools.

  • 12

    [deleted]

    7 years ago

    Girls, dont feel guilty cheating on men with other girls. If he's upset you cheated, he's an idiot and a wussy, you could do better.

    • 11

      UnholyGuacamole

      6 years ago

      That's dumb. As a couple those things should be talked about. It depends on what the couple decides. If he thinks of it as cheating then that doesn't make him less of a man

    • 7

      Villasika

      5 years ago

      That is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. It's still cheating regardless of gender.

  • 11

    Jakodi

    7 years ago

    I think my male competitiveness would be quelled by the fact that she didn't choose another man but a woman instead. I don't think my ego would be bruised so terribly though I know it would take a hit.

    • 1

      Juppez92

      5 years ago

      Does your profile pic have googly eyes?

    • 0

      Jakodi

      5 years ago

      Nope, it's my real eyes but the whites and color part have been made brighter and everything else in the pic was made duller.

  • 11

    bluemoth44

    7 years ago

    At least if they turn out to be gay you know that you never stood a chance.

  • 10

    Roze

    9 years ago

    You 3 must be men. I would be worried about STDs

    • 3

      MarkTheGr8

      6 years ago

      Yes they're men, which is why it's great. Their partner (woman) would be with another woman, and that rarely spawns STD's.

    • 12

      Leon8455

      6 years ago

      so gay = std :o? stupid fuck

    • 4

      Jacob Penta

      6 years ago

      Yes Leon you dumbass, gays very frequently get STDs, more often than heterosexuals

    • 9

      May

      6 years ago

      but you're just so obviously homophobic

    • 7

      ellen.merete24

      6 years ago

      Leon and May, it's not homophobic or stupid, it's fact. The mucosa of an anus is not as bacteria resistant as the mucosa of a vagina. Anal sex between hetereosexual partners is also a higher risk of e.g. HIV or gonorrhea. In other words: Chillax, it's not idiocy.

    • 1

      Demolition Man

      5 years ago

      @ellen.merete24 But Roze said it in a way that made it sound like all gays get STDs, which is untrue. So, Leon and May are, in a way, correct.

  • 8

    Nel

    6 years ago

    you'd be surprised by how many girls find two guys together attractive...

    • 3

      sexy

      5 years ago

      I'm one of those chicks that thinks guy on guy is hot

  • 7

    SafariRozay

    6 years ago

    I will never wanna catch my man with another man, or even a woman I will kick all their asses outside their doom.

  • 6

    Serj

    6 years ago

    I'm gay and I'd rather not have "turned" my partner straight

  • 6

    Nick Vachon

    6 years ago

    I think it would be hot if my wife/girlfriend got it on with another chick

  • 5

    xXTheLostWolfXx

    5 years ago

    I would rather another guys dick not be in my gfs vagina. Girl on girl nothing goes in.

  • 5

    Jesse Kurpuis

    5 years ago

    This one confuses me.

  • 5

    Dash

    6 years ago

    "I come home, I see my girlfriend doing another girl. That's not cheating, that's awesome. She should get down and dirty and be totally cool with it, that's not cheating at all shes just getting down and nasty as she's supposed to." - Dr. Sub Zero

  • 5

    tobydemon

    6 years ago

    At least if its homosexual its not because of you, its just they are not straight

  • 4

    Danielle Parker

    6 years ago

    Most of the comments I'm reading are from heterosexual folk. As a lesbian, both would really suck. On one hand, I'm not good enough for my girl so she had to go find another one. On the other, maybe she wasn't even interested in me to begin with.

  • 4

    nixthat

    6 years ago

    i ended up having to do eenie-meenie-mynie-mo just to share my opinion! personally, i feel like this is a very unfair question. regardless of a person's gender or sexual orientation, cheating is still cheating and it's selfish no matter what. i do not think that anyone here who has expressed voyeuristic desires would feel the same way if they actually found themselves in a situation where their partner was having an affair. (also, fetishizing homosexuality is shallow, you guys, wow.)

  • 4

    mainshooter

    6 years ago

    I just don't want to be the person that pushed my partner to be homosexual.

    • 3

      gwen

      6 years ago

      That doesn't make any sense whatsoever.

  • 4

    Crissy

    6 years ago

    I'm bisexual. So. Either one is great for me =D

  • 4

    overtherainbow

    7 years ago

    If it turned out they were gay, I would understand why they weren't attracted to me. If they were still straight, that would greatly bruise my ego. Plus, I would get a LOT more pissed if the girl they were cheating with knew. Sometimes I hate girls. Sometimes, they're just bitches. Ugh. What a skank.

    • 0

      Chiron Noah Winter

      5 years ago

      no gay gene and no choise.

    • 1

      Vegetable

      4 years ago

      bruh this is a game of would u rather why are u taking this so personally who are u calling a skank this is fake take a deep breath

  • 4

    [deleted]

    7 years ago

    if it turns out I made them gay, I'd never move on.

    • 15

      MarkTheGr8

      6 years ago

      Yeah... You can't really make people gay. It's just something they are.

    • 2

      [deleted]

      6 years ago

      Yeah... You CAN really make people gay. It's sometimes a choice, dumb ass.

    • 9

      Violeta Ordonez

      6 years ago

      WTF no its not a choice asswipe DONT YOU READ ABOUT SCIENCE?

    • 3

      ikillyou

      6 years ago

      i would have to agree with xdpher it is a choice

    • 4

      Nathanial Emery

      6 years ago

      You're fucking retarded, just stop talking xdpher.

    • 1

      Sunny Marie Jackson

      6 years ago

      No; it's not a choice. Bisexual people can choose who to pursue, but straight people can't choose to be gay and gay people can't make themselves straight.

    • 1

      Jacob

      5 years ago

      Choice schmoice. Most gay people have a so-called "gay gene" which they were born with. Some don't. Some who have the "gay gene" live as heterosexuals anyway. (really it's of course much more complicated than this. This is just a very short and mildly inaccurate summary.)

  • 3

    CL PUNK

    4 years ago

    Lol

  • 3

    Sammi

    5 years ago

    Doesn't matter. cheating is cheating...

  • 3

    Dell Conagher

    5 years ago

    I'd be fine living with two gays guys.

  • 3

    Patrick Lessmiller

    6 years ago

    What is this, I don't even

  • 3

    SafariRozay

    6 years ago

    I will never wanna catch my man with another man, or even a woman I will kick all their asses outside their doom.

  • 0

    oliver

    1 day ago

    what's the difference, an affair is an affair.,,.,.,

  • 2

    Shane

    3 years ago

    No pressed wrong one

  • 2

    Franklin Chen

    5 years ago

    That would be hot.

  • 2

    [deleted]

    5 years ago

    Please dont be sick and dont curse seriously its unnecsary.

  • 2

    Zac Sheridan

    6 years ago

    This just brought back depressing memories of my last relationship. Although, at least she has a reason if she's lesbian

  • 2

    Andrew Kopacz

    6 years ago

    I mean, I'm gay, so...

  • 2

    Lolaer

    6 years ago

    I understand why guys wouldn't mind walking in on their girlfriend having hot se with another girl, but as a girl, I would be heartbroken to find out that my boyfriend is actually gay (or bi and never told me)..

  • 2

    Rein

    6 years ago

    in both cases i pray i'm involved :-D

  • 2

    Morgan Marie

    6 years ago

    more of an insult to cheat on me with a MAN

  • 2

    VViP30U7

    6 years ago

    unless theyre bi id understand

  • 1

    Dominik

    10 months ago

    If she has heterosexual relationship then she would look at me because i'm male :) wink wink

  • 1

    Garrett Joswick

    11 months ago

    heterosexual affair with me

  • 0

    Yuzu

    1 month ago

    I fucking love u ewokarelikeu!! Also I agree

  • 1

    GayMe

    1 year ago

    Well, since i am gay, a homosexual would kinda be needed

  • 0

    Ragdoll

    1 month ago

    why the fuck does it matter theyre cheating on you either way

  • 1

    Lav Da Mermaid

    1 year ago

    im gay anyway

  • 1

    JulijaFromSlovenija

    1 year ago

    ugh..... idk im a 10 year old soo idk what they are both

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