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  • 127

    r3dsparcl3

    4 years ago

    it is better to have loved and lost than to never love at all.

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      hahaha

      2 years ago

      Shakespeare ftw

    • 66

      David

      2 years ago

      "Jay: You know what they say. It's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. Kay: Try it. " -Men in Black

    • 9

      Ruben Olivares

      1 year ago

      *T'was

    • 3

      Skidd

      1 year ago

      Fuck you, you goddamn liar.

    • 2

      Jarrod Class

      1 year ago

      hahaha Not Shakespeare, Alfred Lord Tennyson

    • 5

      Yoshiharu

      1 year ago

      Shakespeare, but I first heard Plankton say it.

    • 35

      shaneac

      1 year ago

      But if you never loved, you don't know what you're missing out on. Ignorance is bliss.

    • 3

      Runescape

      1 year ago

      Lies.

    • 17

      Kayla

      1 year ago

      but what if you love someone and you know you can never be with them and your whole life is miserable because you cant stop thinking about that one person for the rest of your life. No Thanks, I would rather have never loved at all and always be happy than have a apart of me be miserable

    • 4

      Rainbow

      1 year ago

      Ignorance is bliss

    • 3

      Ruby Robinson

      1 year ago

      Harry Potter!

    • 2

      Vin Shaw

      1 year ago

      True true

    • 3

      Paul118

      1 year ago

      @David It's just "J" and "K" not Jay and Kay

    • 1

      Franklin Chen

      1 year ago

      Find some hoes

    • 2

      evsey

      1 year ago

      so true, it is better to experience love and be happy, then to never have loved at all. :)

    • 0

      Trey

      1 year ago

      just like Plankton said...

    • 2

      Alexela311

      8 months ago

      Not loving at all would be really sad...

    • 1

      Oh Snap

      8 months ago

      Never said you couldn't freeze it and wait for the scientists to find a cure and... Ok I'm just getting desperate...

    • 1

      FUN GUY

      7 months ago

      True.

    • 0

      SMYMJ

      6 months ago

      actually its better to have never loved at all because you wouldn't feel the pain from a person leaving you

    • 0

      Billy_Glen

      6 months ago

      Remember Plankton's Quotes (Not real plankton , in spongebob cartoon)= It's better to be love with someone and lost than never loved by someone. Really this thing sayed by him. and i can say "What the Freaking Is this WORDS!!!"

    • 0

      Broosies

      6 months ago

      whoever wrote that obviously never loved and lost

    • 0

      FakeTearsDryFaster

      5 months ago

      That's what they all say after a break up

    • 0

      PhantomGaming

      4 months ago

      “Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.” see this quote? the love maybe over but it happened at least.

  • 32

    MissHorrorshow

    2 years ago

    I hate this statement, because I have loved and lost...a whole lot. When you love someone and they leave you and you have nothing to show for the love and time and care you put into the relationship but tears and self-loathing that is without a doubt the bigger burden than never loving at all. You expend nothing of yourself when you don't love anyone. You stay whole. When you love and lose, each person takes a piece of you with them. That's the lynchpin of this statement. "Loved and LOST", meaning you've never had and never will have a love that will not fail. If it was "Loved or never loved" then obviously "loved" would be the choice. As someone who has never loved someone who didn't walk away, I'd trade it all right this second if I knew I'd never EVER have to feel that pain again.

    • 11

      rakketakke

      2 years ago

      tl;dr

    • 3

      SeaHorse405

      2 years ago

      So, you would have never loved at all?

    • 3

      Lawrence

      1 year ago

      You wouldn't feel such pain if you didn't feel immense pleasure. Surely it is better to experience love & pain than go through life never knowing how deeply you can feel.

    • 1

      EdwardNigma

      1 year ago

      I know that feel.

    • 1

      Johan Leth Gregersen

      1 year ago

      Just think of all the good times you've had with your love. I know it sucks, but do you really love someone if you do not treasure time with them more valueable than hatred for the time you're away from them?

    • 1

      Bananerz

      1 year ago

      I know EXACTLY how you feel. I meant to click the blue, because I've learned to accept it, accept myself. And I figured out I'm the bad guy (not in relationships, but in general), and the bad guys never get the happy ending.

    • 2

      Oh Snap

      8 months ago

      You have a lot on your mind. But they're never really gone... They spent a portion of their life with you. You get memories from that. But I know when I feel lonely, I just feel sad as cheesecake.

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    You

    2 years ago

    From personal experience. Never loved. Nothing is worse than lost.

    • 4

      Aharon

      1 year ago

      It hurts more than the pleasure of love.

    • 0

      SunnyCrapCake

      1 year ago

      If nothing is worse than 'lost', how come you're fine right now?

  • 12

    Katie

    2 years ago

    Never loved = not ever getting hurt emotionally.

    • 2

      T.P.N

      1 year ago

      Never loved = virgin.

    • 3

      Ranger

      1 year ago

      I'd rather have loved and not lost but between the two I'd have to say the love is not worth the pain.

    • 1

      Steven

      1 year ago

      TPN misread the question.

    • 1

      Wendall Horton

      1 year ago

      T.P.N. Ever hear of prostitutes?

  • 8

    geekyloon

    1 year ago

    When a man learns to love, he must bear the risk of hatred

  • 8

    Ryker

    2 years ago

    ignorance is bliss

  • 7

    David Bell

    2 years ago

    "Its better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all" love that line, its like music

  • 6

    Kronos

    4 years ago

    duh ! obvious unless you never loved someone

    • 56

      Gunther

      2 years ago

      But loving and losing leads to pain and heartbreak whereas never loving at all means you never felt love and there for never felt the pain of loss

    • 13

      Alex

      2 years ago

      But there's a feeling of emptiness when one hasn't loved at all. And time heals everything as they say.

    • 13

      Lawrence

      1 year ago

      I disagree with Gunther. The only reason you feel such pain during heartbreak is because you experience great joy with that person to begin with, and now its over. I would rather take the massive amounts of joy and love with the pain than go though life never knowing those feelings.

    • 10

      sedayildirim

      1 year ago

      @Gunther It's because of Rachel, isn't it?!

    • 28

      EdwardNigma

      1 year ago

      I have felt love. I thought she was truly the one. When it ended I didn't know what to do. I was dead inside. I have become a darker man. A hollow shell. A cold hearted human. That feeling is like a constant stabbing pain. I would rather not have the amazing feeling of love torn away and replaced by a dark suffering again.

    • 7

      JustCarefree

      1 year ago

      You mature a LOT more if you lose something/someone you cared about. You learn to value things, be it time, morals, or even money.

    • 3

      Alvo Razzi

      1 year ago

      As someone who has loved and lost more than once, I can tell you that it is definitely better to have loved and lost. Remembering how it was to be loved is indescribable and a great lesson. Plus, you can love again. Never said that you couldn't love again. The other answer implies never loving forever.

    • 0

      Wuppi

      1 month ago

      Some of these wounds, cannot be healed and will stick with you forever, sometimes you wish that you never met her.

  • 5

    assassin

    1 year ago

    the only thing i love is the internet and my cats and both of them never loved me back but im not willing to part with any of those.

  • 4

    wrathseed

    1 year ago

    Never love. The scars would never be there

    • 0

      SunnyCrapCake

      1 year ago

      You have scars from other things anyway. Fuck 'Better to love and lose than to never love at all', a better phrase is 'Shit happens.'

  • 3

    Caity

    1 year ago

    Love definitely there's no point being a loner your whole life! Try new things take risks

  • 2

    Jake the Boss

    1 year ago

    At least u had the experience

  • 0

    HannahMac

    2 weeks ago

    Currently I have loved and lost and I would have rather never loved at all. It hurts like hell and I think you would have go have already done both before to choose.

  • 0

    HannahMac

    2 weeks ago

    Currently I have loved and lost and I would have rather never loved at all. It hurts like hell and I think you would have go have already done both before to choose.

  • 0

    Emily

    3 weeks ago

    Well, when you say love.... Do you mean the people you love? Like, I don't wanna lose my mother or father. 0.0

  • 0

    Mike

    3 weeks ago

    They would send a search team

  • 1

    FreakiestAlmond

    9 months ago

    Tis better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.

  • 1

    LOL

    1 year ago

    I've already had that because I loved my dad but then he died and I lost him.

  • 0

    Toothless

    1 month ago

    I've never loved anyone. And I really don't care.

  • 1

    KyleReynoldss

    1 year ago

    Not loved. Worst pain is emotional ones.. Best to avoid it

  • 1

    tacoman2254

    1 year ago

    Potato

  • 0

    xshellseax

    1 month ago

    Loved and lost because it's an honor to love someone

  • 1

    Chip Davis

    1 year ago

    I wanna be a real boy!

  • 1

    YouAreAPeasant

    1 year ago

    I've lost a lot of people in my life, but gradually you'll deal with the pain like it's a part of you. There can be pain in everything. Not just in loving someone, and then losing them. I mean, people always leave right? I'd rather be surprised if someone stayed.

  • 1

    Somebody

    1 year ago

    It is better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all.

  • 1

    Jay

    1 year ago

    Love and Lost because then you become one of those respected, shiny eyed, sympathy soaking, bearded fathers.

  • 1

    Alyssa

    1 year ago

    Honestly? I've loved and lost. The emptiness you feel when you've never loved is nothing in comparison to losing that someone.

  • 0

    Frank Jonathan Gonzalez

    1 month ago

    Trust me, I have loved and lost and it is something that I wouldn't wish upon my worst of enemy. You become differentwhen you lose. You become a colder soul, a hollow shell. It is not something that you want to feel.

  • 1

    Void

    1 year ago

    Loving and losing leads to suicide

  • 1

    Dr. Prof. Damian

    1 year ago

    makes for good music:)

  • 1

    DoctorMattTennant

    1 year ago

    "Its better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all."

  • 1

    Brennan Tanner M

    2 years ago

    What kind of question is this the saying Is "tis better to have loved and lost then never to have loved at all"

  • 0

    Jordan Traylor

    1 month ago

    I've loved someone and it fucked me up. I'd rather not love someone and lose them.

  • 1

    SeaHorse405

    2 years ago

    To hell with being in love. It isn't 'real' ⁢ won't last forever.

    • 5

      Evan Hamilton

      2 years ago

      You are the biggest moron I have ever seen in my entire life.

    • 1

      Adalos

      1 year ago

      Those YOLO and SWAG are far more stupid and yet you call him the biggest moron you ever see?

    • 1

      Joseph David Stearma

      1 year ago

      funny thing about SWAG. it stands for Secretly We Are Gay. look it up.

  • 0

    Jeremy_V

    1 month ago

    Time hasn't healed me

  • 1

    Linkums

    2 years ago

    At least then I'd know it was possible

  • 0

    Fizerin

    1 month ago

    doesnt matter, had sex

  • 0

    LEEEERRROOOOY JEEEENKIEENS

    1 month ago

    LEEERRRROOOOYYY JEEEENKIENS

  • 0

    LEEEERRROOOOY JEEEENKIEENS

    1 month ago

    LEEERRRROOOOYYY JEEEENKIENS

  • 0

    Benny Farrar

    2 months ago

    Ehh its already happened watev

  • 0

    The Girl Who Lived

    2 months ago

    Isnt there a quote along the lines of 'it is better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all'?

  • 0

    The Girl Who Lived

    2 months ago

    Isnt there a quote along the lines of 'it is better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all'?

  • 0

    Chris Fleming

    2 months ago

    It is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all!

  • 0

    Houdini111

    2 months ago

    I'm already feeling that I'm there. Better to not have a taste of what could be and never have it again.

  • 0

    jackk

    3 months ago

    If you never loved yours be deppersed and wouldn't no how to love if you lost love get new love

  • 0

    ultimateboss

    3 months ago

    It's better to have loved and lost then have never loved at all

  • 0

    zizoo

    3 months ago

    never loving that means you cant love anyone

  • 0

    eipok

    3 months ago

    Never loved at all? cruel life..

  • 0

    danielvnumber3

    3 months ago

    It's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all

  • 0

    Timothy Avedikian

    3 months ago

    My first girlfriend just dumped me

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