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44% have a cute a boyfriend who dated other girls

56% have a really ugly boyfriend who was loyal

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Have a cute a boyfriend who dated other girls
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Have a really ugly boyfriend who was loyal

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The ugly one was only a bit romantic. The cute on was super romantic.

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  • 275

    Anthony Johnson

    7 years ago

    REALY girls? if you would date loyal boys why always friendzone them if they ask you out?

    • 270

      Yasmin Sharp

      7 years ago

      I fucking hate it when boys complain about being friendzoned. 1. being a "nice guy" is not the only factor to consider. 2. girls get friendzoned too. 3. complaining about the fact of being always friendzoned puts girls off.

    • 44

      Tyler Jolley

      7 years ago

      Dude I hate it. I was just friendzoned by a girl I care about too... UGH and no this isnt just a guy thing

    • 53

      Gryx

      7 years ago

      Being nice does not equal sex. Kill yourself or stop being a pussy, dude.

    • 27

      reptaur

      7 years ago

      For real dude dafuq lol? If you hate being friendzoned then tell the chick to screw off. Find a different girl.

    • 37

      iJesse

      7 years ago

      @Yasmin Sharp Yes, but rarely do girls get friend zoned. The only case where they do is when they friend zone a guy, and then come back crying to him because the guy they wanted before wasn't "loyal" enough. Nice Guy > Nice Girl > Jerk It's just plain logic.

    • 50

      Advance

      7 years ago

      The friendzone shouldn't fucking exist. If you're so shallow and stupid that you simply can't accept that your friend won't go out with you and just be friends, you wouldn't keep trying. People in the friendzone are brainless morons.

    • 14

      Pzerce Dardel Mendones

      7 years ago

      Apparently being nice isn't the priority.

    • 12

      no thankth

      7 years ago

      i never complain about being in the freind zone, its not horrible to be in there, i mean at least your still friends. i've had girls who never talked to me again after i asked them out…so quit ur complainin

    • 9

      Big Bubba

      7 years ago

      Boy,that escalated quickly..

    • 4

      Chrissy

      7 years ago

      everyone needs to know their league and stick to it if they don't want to be 'friendzoned'

    • 18

      DarkWave

      7 years ago

      The real question is, what is Yasmin doing out of the kitchen?

    • 17

      Lisette

      7 years ago

      Yasmin is busy making a good damn point. Women aren't meant to be treated like another species

    • 20

      Not snow

      7 years ago

      "Hey girls, you're bad people for not wanting to go out with every creep that acts nice to you"

    • 2

      Kelsey Seana Neville-McNabb

      7 years ago

      Some guys are too good to lose.

    • 12

      Kayla Bruner

      7 years ago

      Friendzone basically means you only care about a girl's vagina and not her care and friendship

    • 3

      Kayla Bruner

      7 years ago

      Friendzone basically means you only care about a girl's vagina and not her care and friendship

    • 2

      Kayla Bruner

      7 years ago

      Friendzone basically means you only care about a girl's vagina and not her care and friendship

    • 22

      KyukiYoshida

      7 years ago

      @iJesse That's complete and utter bullshit, and you apparently know nothing about females. Girls do not only get friendzoned when they try to go to the guy they turned down. I can't tell you how any times I've been friendzoned, there's been so many times I've put so much time and effort into someone that wanted nothing to do with me. And then when myself or other girls get turned down, it's our fault, we weren't pretty enough, we didn't wear our hair the right way, it was too short or too plain, we dressed too slutty or not slutty enough, we didnt wear enough make up, we didnt wear the right clothes, we were too nerdy, too weird, not feminine enough, or nails weren't done, our skirts weren't short enough, our boobs weren't big enough, or too big, you're too fat or too skinny etc.

    • 6

      IAmDoneHere

      7 years ago

      @DarkWave, and you wonder why we friendzone you.

    • 3

      The Doctor

      7 years ago

      I am a dude so I change girl to boy and boy to girl, if you would rather date a girl/guy who was "beautiful" rather then someone you can trust and would most likely be nice to you then just go break up already.

    • 5

      ribbonista

      7 years ago

      because nobody is obligated to date you, you piece of shit ((SURPRISE; girls have a mind of their own!!!))

    • 10

      Yaz

      7 years ago

      Lol iJesse, how many girls have you talked to? It's SUPER easy to get friend zoned by guys, so don't even TRY pulling the whole 'it's so hard to be a guy, girls always friend zone us but they can get whoever they want', because it's not true. I friend zoned one guy friend because I just didn't like him in that way, and he a few months later got an amazing girlfriend and they've been dating for 8 months. Don't villainize girls, we get friend zoned plenty. I don't let it stop my friendship of course, because I really like them, but it never becomes anything more.

    • 3

      bloom

      7 years ago

      I'm a boy so..

    • 4

      Katie

      7 years ago

      Maybe girls friend zone you guys because you're always complaining about being friend zoned. Also, have you considered the fact that a girl actually has a crush on someone who she really likes or she's just not looking for a relationship? I don't accept being asked out simply because I'm not looking for a relationship. And if I was in a relationship with anyone, I wouldn't want to be someone who complains whenever a girl doesn't do what he wants them to.

    • 6

      empgdca

      7 years ago

      Being friendzoned isn't the problem. The girl then going out with a douche and refusing to admit that he's a douche i the annoying thing.

    • 2

      flamedragon2525

      6 years ago

      lol

    • 2

      JesusBurger

      6 years ago

      So much menstruation in one chain, women are fucked up, wish I was gay or at least bisexual.

    • 1

      Jade Gorton

      6 years ago

      I seem have problem, not getting into the Friendzone. But considering I am asexual I can't comment on why people get sad or made when friend zoned. I feel sad for most women around me.

    • 1

      psycozmbe

      6 years ago

      THANK YOU!

    • 3

      MarshManOriginal

      6 years ago

      Friendzone doesn't exist you fucking idiot.

    • 1

      Ben Xyloto

      6 years ago

      Yasmin Sharp, i've Never heard of a girl getting friendzoned.

    • 5

      Dior

      6 years ago

      this is the problem with guys. just because you're loyal, doesnt mean a girl is suddenly going to fall for you. grow up

    • 4

      Mieuu

      6 years ago

      Wow being friends with a GIRL is such a horrible. Fuck you sexist prick.

    • 2

      DERPZgaming

      6 years ago

      I dont even want him

    • 1

      WakaWakaMaFucka

      5 years ago

      Neckbeard

    • 2

      [deleted]

      4 years ago

      How can they know in advance that you are loyal? Besides there are usually multiple features one look for in a relationship

    • 1

      iWeatherking

      4 years ago

      Yasmin, you have no idea what the bias is, do you?

    • 1

      Benjamin

      4 years ago

      Dear Anthony we have been getting several pop up messages from your computer so eminently call 1833-124-3432

    • 1

      KittiCat

      4 years ago

      aaaaaaaaaaaaAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAND FUCK YOU.

    • 1

      Jesa

      4 years ago

      Plastic surgery. Yes.

    • 1

      Elise

      4 years ago

      you sexist piece of crap

    • 1

      INFINITE IN DECIMAL

      4 years ago

      I was also just friendzoned ;_;

    • 1

      Donald Trump

      4 years ago

      Friendzone isnt real

    • 1

      JerseyDevil610

      4 years ago

      Eating popcorn

    • 1

      Mr. CAXA

      3 years ago

      Shut up

    • 1

      Blitz

      3 years ago

      Im male so I dont frikin care I just cloosed my eyes and mashed my face on my pc

    • 1

      I'll follow the sun

      3 years ago

      I don't take looks into account. I want a true love!

    • 3

      Vincent Catz

      3 years ago

      I'm a boy so no one here even cares about my answer.

    • 4

      Jack

      3 years ago

      what is the point in having a cute guy if he's not loyal

    • 1

      jordan

      3 years ago

      im a boy i not having a boyfriend

    • 1

      kass

      3 years ago

      vincent catz, I do.

    • 1

      Mrs

      3 years ago

      Why do guys assume that just because they are nice they automatically deserve the girl and if for whatever reason they don't want you you get all offended and act like we are taking away something you deserve or earned like wtf

    • 1

      FrossFairyEmpire

      2 years ago

      Glad to be a Lesbian in the first place.

    • 1

      Akisana Monorica

      2 years ago

      your son will be ugly as fuck bruh

    • 1

      Lav Da Mermaid

      2 years ago

      No female is obligated to date you just because you are "loyal" or a "nice guy"

    • 1

      Yellow Raptor

      2 years ago

      I honestly do not care if I am friendzoned because:It's just me,myself and I

    • 0

      poo

      2 years ago

      friendzoned? Try i just want to be friends but you keep acting like being nice to me means I have to date you zoned

    • 0

      TheSpookyTopHat

      1 year ago

      First point: Many of the women who have commented negatively are hypocrites because they are not really saying their opinion should be respected but the ugly are forced to stop asking for them. Second point: It is true that if they are friendly the woman in question is not obliged to go out with him, but rejecting her for the aspect is absurd. Third point: Ahhh ... think something Jimmy. They will eat us if we don't give more points.

    • 0

      Jonny

      1 year ago

      Wait a second. So this guy is bisexual or am I forcing them to date me...

    • 0

      Tom

      1 year ago

      I'm a boy and Women and Men go through a give and take women go through some stuff that men won't experience same with men but the friendzone is the same to both parties

    • 0

      Collapsed

      1 year ago

      maybe your not loyal

    • 0

      Cal McCrudden

      1 year ago

      speaking fromexpereince

    • 0

      Bangtan <3

      1 year ago

      so what do you want me to say? I really dont have a crush on you so no? like n matter what rtype of ejection, youre going to be mad lmao

    • 0

      ToyloverGS

      9 months ago

      personality is what matters

    • 0

      Geneveive Hill

      2 months ago

      r/niceguys anyone? Seriously, just because you're nice doesn't mean the girl has to romantically like you.

  • 87

    Fuzzly

    7 years ago

    So I'm gay now apparently?

  • 29

    ReasonableRedditor

    7 years ago

    1) Looks change. 2) Rather have a loyal man than a man whore. My opinion: The girls who choose blue are only girls, not women.

  • 22

    Daphne

    7 years ago

    Am I the only one who noticed it said he dated other girls? Which means he was not dating other girls while with you and could be completely loyal to you and just have had past girlfriends

  • 14

    Mewsi

    7 years ago

    This question would be much better if the answers were: "Have a cute mate who dated other people" or "Have a really ugly mate who was loyal"

  • 13

    Kira

    7 years ago

    No one is ugly in my opinion. But I would want a guy who is nice, loyal and at least tries to be romantic.

  • 12

    Charles Manson

    7 years ago

    he's pretty inside :)

  • 10
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    Tyler Jolley

    7 years ago

    considering im a dude, i would rather be seen with a really good looking guy if people thought i was gay

  • 10

    Handsome Stranger

    7 years ago

    I'd rather not have sex with him anyway

    • 24

      jt33

      6 years ago

      I'm a dude, so i just replaced boyfriend with girlfriend

  • 8

    Ronster Johnster Fee

    7 years ago

    for the guys: have a hot girlfriend but dated other guys, have an unattractive girlfriend but is loyal, the female who made his really shouldnt of said really ugly.. thats just being bitchy and self centred

  • 7

    Nicki Jiminez

    7 years ago

    Hey if he is dating other girls while dating me id just do the same; date other people. (open relationship ftw?)

    • 2

      xLadyInsanity

      7 years ago

      if you're going to date copious amounts of people, why be in a relationship in the first place? FUCK LOGIC

  • 7

    Komakom

    7 years ago

    The grade 8 is strong with this one...

  • 7

    LOLking

    7 years ago

    You girls are idiots

    • 1

      Luke Bennett

      6 years ago

      The people who did blue are probably guys... Like me.. I'm not gonna go out with some ugly in romantic guy if I'm forced to be gay XD

    • 1

      Lua

      4 years ago

      "Have" (Present tense) a cut boyfriend who "dated" (Past tense) other girls. So, it only says he's had girlfriends before me, not necessarily that he's cheating on me.

  • 6

    Jessica Mijares

    7 years ago

    Who cares if he's "ugly" as long as you love him and he's loyal that's all that matters... manwhores are douches

    • 0

      poffz

      2 years ago

      But it says that he WAS loyal not that he IS loyal, meaning he is no longer loyal, same on blue, it says that he DATED other girls, not is datING other girls

  • 6

    Jessie

    7 years ago

    Im a guy but I had to choose

  • 5

    Steph

    7 years ago

    as long as they truly love you...

  • 4

    Spartanjp13

    7 years ago

    Neither, I'm a dude

  • 4

    The Juggerbelly

    7 years ago

    This is irrelivant to most people who use the internet.

  • 4

    Rowan93

    7 years ago

    If I'm going to have a boyfriend, I don't particularly care about loyalty. I mean, I'm going to be boning as many girls as I can, I don't see why he shouldn't.

  • 3

    J.E.N.

    4 years ago

    it says dated not dates or is dating so you're the best he met

  • 3

    Leafy Bfdi

    5 years ago

    It never said he did all that while we were dating...

    • 1

      Leafy Bfdi

      5 years ago

      It could be just ex girlfriends... so he wouldn't be cheating on me if it was before... Loophole!

  • 3

    Matthew

    7 years ago

    It's awkward to answer this question as a guy XD

  • 3

    Komakom

    7 years ago

    The grade 8 is strong with this one...

  • 2

    Billie Wood

    4 years ago

    I'm a boy

  • 2

    Chris star

    6 years ago

    I would like a cute bf cause I'm bi

  • 2

    Master

    6 years ago

    Beauty is on the inside.

  • 2

    jimmy

    6 years ago

    Some of u girls are right but most of u are wrong. Guys usually get friend zone more than girls. I've been friend zoned a bunch of times but never complained but It does kinda hurt that's where the bs kicks in u try to be nice and boom ur a friend but they pick the jerk who breaks her heart and they complain about finding the right guy and I think that is stupid how they think oh this guy is nice he's a good FRIEND I hope I find a bf like this but no u guys don't know how to pick a guy that can be standing right in front of u u decide to go for the bad ass

    • 1

      jimmy

      6 years ago

      It's true

    • 0

      Lua

      4 years ago

      Thinking that someone is nice and has a great personality doesn't necessarily mean you're attracted to that person. Plus, most of the guys who've been "friendzoned" have never asked the girl out - They were called a friend once, and just gave up.

  • 2

    Rocket Dude

    7 years ago

    I'm not gay

  • 2

    iluvkfc

    7 years ago

    This question is retarded because it assumes I am either a girl or gay. Only voted to comment.

  • 2

    Trolhado

    7 years ago

    im a dude. how bout that?

  • 2

    Riael EagleEye

    7 years ago

    Gay question is gay?

  • 2

    Almassou

    7 years ago

    wow im a dude so i chose the red just to see what the results are and i thought women were bitches before

  • 2

    Ghetto Turtle

    7 years ago

    So I'm guessing this is geared more towards girls.

  • 2

    CatalystSpark

    7 years ago

    I'm poly, so I would be dating more than one person as well.

  • 0

    Jonathan

    3 weeks ago

    Who wants to fuck with me

  • 0

    DredgenWar237

    3 weeks ago

    DatED, not is datING. Nothing wrong with that.

  • 0

    t-dog

    1 month ago

    im but i had to choose one i chose randomly not gay so

  • 1

    senpie

    4 years ago

    Past tense, guys.

  • 1

    KSMKat

    4 years ago

    seriosly, who needs a frickin cheater?

  • 1

    A named person

    4 years ago

    I am bisexual so I would be okay with a dude penetrating me and me penetrating him,

  • 1

    I am cool damn it!

    4 years ago

    Im a boy...

  • 1

    your mom

    4 years ago

    fuckboys for the win (facepalmig at myself right now)

  • 1

    ASlytherinSnake

    4 years ago

    He better share those girlfriends... Happily poly relationship; and it'd probably even last.

  • 1

    kwyuch

    6 years ago

    This question is unrealistic because friendzone

  • 1

    Isabella Wincott

    6 years ago

    Looks don't matter. Whoever picked blue is obviously a slut/whore

    • 0

      Kirishima

      1 year ago

      Exactly! (Minus the last part) its all about personality

  • 1

    Cory Dell

    6 years ago

    This question is basically: "Would you rather be in an open relationship with someone you're attracted to who has a grasp on romance or an unattractive, unromantic?" Now I know what it's like to have the mind of a thirteen year old girl.

  • 1

    Alex

    6 years ago

    Loyalty > Looks

  • 1

    AhALonewolf335

    6 years ago

    It's all relative

  • 1

    empgdca

    7 years ago

    I assume this is reversed, since I'm a straight guy.

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