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75% dump someone

25% get dumped

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Get dumped

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after a three year relationship, so in both cases you're pretty attached

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  • 134

    Jerry Jerryson

    8 years ago

    Getting dumped sucks ass.

  • 28

    Michelle Genobisa Petersen

    7 years ago

    After a three years relationship (as the question says) I don't think I could handle being the dickhead dumping someone, but I could handle being dumped and call the person a dick.

    • 2

      Ollie_LOL_King

      4 years ago

      I'd just say it was all my fault and contemplate suicide

    • 1

      Rymax

      1 year ago

      I did it to some three years ago coz it started to go sour, she still hates me.

  • 24

    Arbon45

    8 years ago

    I'd prefer to be sad than making someone else sad

  • 19

    LOLking

    8 years ago

    i liek poop

  • 14

    RealityWarping

    8 years ago

    In psychology I found out that it is part of relationships that a person dumping someone would want to protect their reputation by being really nice and everything. You'd also have to be the one to decide to do the dumping, which would make me feel heartless considering I'm pretty attached in this relationship.

    • 5

      Lottie Gregori Gee

      8 years ago

      my boyfrind dumped me a couple of week ago then wanted me back, it hurt me so much more telling him i didnt want to get back together and hurting his feelings

  • 14

    breno

    8 years ago

    I am in this exact situation right now

    • 14

      warbek

      8 years ago

      if you want to dump the person and they seem to want to dump you, why does it matter?

  • 13

    zalarin

    8 years ago

    I'd rather get hurt than hurt someone I cared about. And I would have cared about them at one time or another obviously

  • 8

    Kendall Walls

    8 years ago

    I would hate doing this.

  • 6

    anonymous

    4 years ago

    As much as it sucks, I would rather be the one to get hurt than be the one to hurt the other person

  • 5

    TheShortChangeHero

    7 years ago

    Less painful :(

    • 2

      PeterPotter

      4 years ago

      I've got to disagree with you on this point. It might just be me, but I love everyone and hate hurting other people's feelings because I'd then fall into another bout of depression and I don't want to go through that 'cause that would then cause me to attempt to turn into a vegetable and I might succeed in that and all that stuff which would then end up killing me 'cause I just wouldn't care about anything anymore. I don't want to end up like that.

  • 5

    laura

    7 years ago

    im already in a 3 year relationship and i dont know how to break up with him. I would rather make him dump me

    • 2

      BraindeadBogan

      7 years ago

      Make him answer this question on this site. Like 75% of the people who answered, he will probably choose blue. And then force him into dumping you.

  • 4

    Divinity

    7 years ago

    I rather dump them then waste more of their time with someone who doesn't give a crap about them :D plus i love making ppl cry ^.^

  • 4

    youat2inthemorning

    8 years ago

    I wouldn't be the mean one lol

  • 3

    MotherLover

    8 years ago

    If you chose red you've obviously never been in a serious relationship

    • 2

      RealityWarping

      8 years ago

      I tried and failed to have one, considering I was 15 at the time.

    • 5

      Psyker

      8 years ago

      How so? I don't like hurting people, it's just not in me.

    • 1

      connor

      7 years ago

      I have been dumped and yea it freaking sucks ass but i couldnt hurt someone like that and if they cried i would melt cant handle a girl crying

    • 0

      Katie

      7 years ago

      Well if you were in a serious relationship, why would you want to dump them and make them feel as though you did not like them? I wouldn't be capable of dumping someone I loved.

  • 2

    Simon Medina-Pinango

    1 year ago

    eh getting dumped sucks, but then you have the power of moping about it and have people feel bad for you while they hate on the other person

  • 2

    DatKenz

    7 years ago

    It's always me to dump the other person. It's just as painful.

  • 2

    Jacob

    7 years ago

    Well Adele got dumped and she made an album.

  • 2

    [deleted]

    8 years ago

    My girlfriend dumped me a few hours ago im kinda depressed

    • 1

      RealityWarping

      8 years ago

      For what reason? Often when someone gets dumped they wonder the reason.

    • 1

      Julius Imhof

      7 years ago

      got dumped after seven years last week and it still hurts like shit. And now she ain't even happy! So fuck that, if i dump someone it would mean i am over her. Definetely better than what i'm feeling!

  • 1

    pilot691

    3 years ago

    Fuck romance

  • 1

    Johnattan

    4 years ago

    I once dumped a girl and everytime I saw her I almost cried not because I wanted to be with her but because she got really sad about it and I felt like a monster

  • 1

    Will

    4 years ago

    How is this a question? Just fuck em and dump em.

  • 1

    EmilLM

    4 years ago

    you would have THE POWER!!!!!

  • 1

    Joey

    4 years ago

    Easy Loophole: Just get back with them saying you didn't mean it right after. EZ

  • 1

    SasIsSassy_YT

    4 years ago

    Hey I dumped a boy dont judge he was an ass

    • 0

      [deleted]

      4 years ago

      Sometimes people deserve it. No need to stay in a relationship that you are overall unhappy with

  • 1

    LastKing

    6 years ago

    I wont want the girl to cry so get dumped

  • 1

    Nynrahman

    6 years ago

    I am a wimp

  • 1

    Katie

    7 years ago

    If I ever dumped someone I'd probably end up doing something stupid to lighten up the mood like: "It's not you, it's a me MARIO!" thus making the person wanting to have broken up with me first. XD

  • 1

    William

    7 years ago

    Wait, wait, wait... Why would someone choose "get dumped"? Even if you're an extraordinarily kind person, and it's awesome if you are, I think blue is the right choice. If YOU'RE dumping THEM, you can let them off easy, tell them that it's not their fault, and offer to stay good friends. If THEY dump YOU, you might not get such a kind letdown. Still, the fact that a choice like this is at least somewhat of a close fight makes me happy for the awesomeness of people.

  • 1

    gary wu

    8 years ago

    anyone who would rather get dumped, has not been.

  • 1

    Jishushika White

    8 years ago

    I did it after a 4 year relationship and it's as easy as getting in your car and driving down the highway with some periods for eye sweating...Simple

  • 1

    suzzieee

    8 years ago

    some people just can't hurt someone, no matter how much that person has hurt them :)

  • 1

    Spen

    8 years ago

    Get dumped. Don't hurt her feelings.

  • 1

    Jessica

    8 years ago

    i hate dumping someone

  • 1

    qwert

    8 years ago

    i would like to think i could do it with tact, no idea about the other half. also i'f we're both attatched it'll have the same emotional reprocussians for both of us but i'll know why with cirtainty

  • 0

    xToca

    3 months ago

    if u get dumped u can call them a bitch for dumping you and ppl will agree and will get comforted by ppl

  • 0

    Mike Rutch

    3 months ago

    hurt or get hurt easy

  • 0

    Bhyet

    5 months ago

    Dumping domeone hurts, ive d9ne it. Getting dumped isnt all that bad

  • 0

    FloppyPanda

    5 months ago

    It feels better to wreck someone else's life then to have yours get wrecked

  • 0

    Splatqueen

    5 months ago

    This is the easyest so far

  • 0

    elite4

    5 months ago

    dude why do you want to get dumped, obviously you probably don't want to get dumped, right?

  • 0

    Miles

    7 months ago

    It would have been hard to live with the fact that you have dumped someone. I chose get dumped so I can drown in my doritos and soda.

  • 0

    FIRE

    7 months ago

    i got dumpet so idc arout any thing

  • 0

    Nevaeh

    7 months ago

    Its not me...Its you..

  • 0

    alex

    8 months ago

    There were 419 comments and I had to do it justice

  • 0

    Calvin

    8 months ago

    I can handle my self getting dumbed

  • 0

    Noveak Prime

    10 months ago

    Dump someone. But I would feel bad and probably date the person again.

  • 0

    Sydney

    1 year ago

    I'd get dumped, although it's hard I'd rather not hurt somebody else

  • 0

    [deleted]

    1 year ago

    Let them go so they don’t have to dump you.

  • 0

    Paiton

    1 year ago

    umm... this seems shallow, but I'd rather get dumped, because then I'll be sad and I can go cry to my girls and find a new bae!! :) Plus, attention duh-

  • 0

    xeras3245

    1 year ago

    I'd rather my heart get crushed the most, instead of crushing someone else's.

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