Would you rather...

Be a spouse of a polygamist

Never have a relationship last longer than 2 years

To be clear, you would be one of several spouses to the polygamist.

That's a Big Family

Oct 6, 2009

VintageMatureSex

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Be a spouse of a polygamist

A long-term committed household, however unconventional, avoids the recurring heartbreak of relationships that always end after two years
A polygamous arrangement still offers stability, shared family life, and lasting companionship

Never have a relationship last longer than 2 years

Sharing a spouse with others triggers jealousy and territorial feelings that most people find unworkable
Serial relationships preserve personal romantic autonomy without the complexity of group dynamics
Never committing beyond two years reduces certain health and emotional risks tied to shared long-term trust

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Would you rather...

Be a spouse of a polygamist

Never have a relationship last longer than 2 years

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