marry a new random person every year
- If the random draw goes badly, you're only committed for a year — the annual reset prevents being permanently trapped with someone completely incompatible.
- Meeting a new partner every year increases the long-run odds of finding someone you genuinely connect with, even if no single match is within your control.
- No single terrible outcome is permanent — whatever the mismatch, a year is survivable in a way that a lifetime commitment to the wrong person is not.